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Straight but had sexual activity with a buddy
words4u posted:
I think the human being is a complex being. I imagine the mind functions on a spectrum of thoughts and feelings. To say one is straight or gay is to over-simplify the characteristics of the mind. The act itself is homosexual without a doubt, but I do not feel this makes a person gay. There is more to it than that. I think there may be a sort of combination in our brains that when the right person of the same gender hits all the right numbers, emotions emerge. In other words, there are special circumstances in which the mind will allow for a specific relationship to a specific person of the same gender, and that may include sex. For some men, I think if a friend is close enough, that friend may have the combination that triggers such feelings that no other man can. Some men are naturally closed off to that combination while others maintain it, unknowingly. I think it's the same for women.

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