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    Change in libido and vagina after going off Pill.
    An_250719 posted:
    I am 53 and went off the Pill one year ago January at the age of 51. I had been on the Tri-Cyclen Pill since the age of 23, stopping only to have my daughter at 41 and going back on thereafter. From the moment I went off the Pill I experienced an immediate and dramatic loss of libido and my vagina walls began to burn as if I had a suntan (thin and raw to touch). I also experienced hot flashes that now becoming less frequent. FYI - I've had no periods since stopping the Pill so I am clearly in menopause.

    My doctor prescribed a vaginal estradiol pill bi-weekly, and I purchased over-the-counter lubricants. However, the burning remains - less so, but still present, but the most disturbing symptom remains my loss of interest in sex despite no change in the cues or routines - just my interest level and bodily responses.

    My question is, would HRT return the libido. I have researched this enough to know that candles and soft music won't cure the drop in dopamine and increase in prolactin that have literally taken the gas out of my engine (mother nature's way of saying I can no longer reproduce so why bother continuing with the cues). Would HRT return my chemistry to the way I was before I went off the Pill? Or do you recommend something else?
    Mary Jane Minkin, MD responded:
    Dear An_250719,
    I do think that at least a short course of estrogen and progestin therapy would help you. (remember, since you have a uterus, you need to take both) You could do this in either a transdermal form or an oral form; as you have done very well with the pill, an oral form in this situation might be the easiest for you, as you are used to taking a pill every day. Remember that HRT is actually significantly lower does than the pill; the combination of estrogen and progestin you would be taking would be basically one sixth of the dose of the tri cyclen pill. The systemic estrogen would be likely to really help "prime the pump" so to speak for your vagina, for moisture; even a couple of months of systemic estrogen would help you vaginally; at that point, you might do well enough with topical therapy that you wouldn't need the systemic estrogen for the moisture. However, the next question is that of libido; and no one knows the true agent of libido. Certainly estrogen and testosterone have been implicated. So I think you would be an excellent candidate to go onto systemic therapy, and get your vagina in good shape. And then you can decide how long you want to stay on the systemic therapy, and settle on the lowest dose that alleviates your symptoms. (the recommendation of the North American Menopause Society: to use the lowest dose consistent with treatment goals.)
    Good luck,
    Mary Jane

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