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natrajsatish posted:
I am 40 yrs old i got married 7 yrs past, now for an year i have no sex libido to satisfy my partner, pls advice the reason and how to recover from this problem
thimsellaid responded:
For ED problems, you may try some ED pills available for treatment. These medications can enhance you blood flow to improve your condition triggered by some health issues such as hypertension and diabetes. You can find a lot of information from this page:
nohard responded:
Hi this is part of a post I did about a week ago, like you have had ED, your see my name come up as NOHARD, I'm trying to change it on here to NOWHARD, as now I have said go bye to ED, what you will see in the posts if you get to them, believe me does work.
But unlike WebMD says there are some very good natural herbs that will help you out of ED, I'm one of the people who can hold my hand up and say yes they do work.
And do believe getting our blood working good is part of getting over ED.
If anybody wants to look just have a look at these posts, google DRUGS VERSUS HERBS, HERBS MY CHOICE, same title but just add DAILY INTAKE, NOHARDS HERB LIST WITH LINKS, and NOHARDS HERBS FOR ED, PART 2, there 3 to 4 links with most of them, so lots to read, you can take my mix as a guide to see if it works for you, but you can just add or subtract, one thing is I'm now off ginger, but still on the rest.
Do hope this helps some guys.
Good Luck
sarachoi responded:
Take sexual enhancement pills like Tadalafil , Viagra or Cialis.
bigred53 replied to sarachoi's response:
He didn't say he had ED he said he had no libido. What good is an erection if he has no libido/desire? ED meds do not give you the desire to have sex. Sexuality is a lot more than an erection.

I've been with men who have problems getting and maintaining an erection but they still want to have sex all the time. Men do not have to have an erection to climax and ejaculate. Good sex does not always have to be penetrate sex. Just saying.

nohard replied to bigred53's response:
Hi Michelle, For most guys if there libido is low it does give us ED problems, now some of the herbs I take do increase our libidos, both DHEA and Tribulus do this, mix in a couple of other things, and were back in the game.
Worked for me.
lonealaskangypsy responded:
Have you tried talking to your partner about your lack of interest? Perhaps they can help you re-inspire your inner sex drive. Trying new positions, sexual ventures, foreplay, watching risqu? movies, and being open with each other about sexual fantasies could help ignite the passion you feel you've lost.
jox29 responded:
I guess you need some professional medical advice first.
oldbiguy responded:
When my wife and I were in our 20s and newlyweds we discovered that I'm the one with the extremely low sex drive and stamina, not her. So for the last 30 plus years to sexually satisfy my wife I have insisted on her to have sex with 2 other men. Initially it started as a spouse trading arrangement with another couple (the other wife has the same desire for sex as I do "almost none") and then about 15 years ago we invited a single male friend (10 years younger than us) into our bed. She still is having sex with both of them (not at the same time) at least once a week, that is way more than I ever need or desire sex. This arrangement works very well for us, but its' not for everyone.
mrsofty replied to oldbiguy's response:
Almost sounds like a cuckold video. I would rather be divorced
than let/watch another guy pork my wife.What will you do when
she decides to leave you for that younger cock? My soon to be
ex is leaving because of no sex.Now I can do her ( with help
from Cialis),but I'm not gonna cum.So, she says we didn't have
sex.She cums several times but bitches because I didn't even
though it doesn't bother me that much. I'm on 4 meds that stop
erections & libido. I can watch really good ,nasty,porn for hours
and not get a twinge. It sucks! 10 years ago (I'm 61) I could
get a hardon at will even though I was on antidepressants.Now,
I have to take B.P. and prostate meds and now I'm a sad piece
of work.It doesn't help that she has gotten fat,nasty, lazy,and
argumentative. 21 yrs shot to hell. I'm going to try the herbal
route.Good luck.
oldbiguy replied to mrsofty's response:
When my wife and I were in our early 20s, before we were engaged, we realized that I'm the one with the extremely low sex drive, not her. We decided then that lack of sex would be a hurdle to overcome, not a wall to keep us apart.

In a cuckold arrangement I would get some type sexual gratification. All I get is the satisfaction in knowing that my wife's sexually needs are being taken care of. I think if she was going to leave she would have done it long ago, not wait 30 plus years. If she leaves me now it's because I did something stupid. Not because she wants younger cock, she can have that without leaving me.

If my choices are to Love her but divorce her because I can't satisfy her sexual needs or to Love her and help her achieve sexual satisfaction, I'll chose the helping her every time. Sex is just a physical act, Love is so much more. I wouldn't dream of divorcing my wife because I couldn't satisfy her in bed, she is a wonderful wife, mother, friend, lover (nonsexual), and so much more. I'll gladly encourage her to bring other men into our bedroom, the rest of the house she is mine.

I'm almost 60, I don't take any prescriptions or anything other than vitamins, never have. I just never had any desire for sex. Good luck with the Herbal route, it never worked for me.

If you can't separate Love and Sex — What happened when the Sex is gone!

Lastly — Why/How do you stop Loving someone because one of you doesn't want/need sex?


josesvargas replied to oldbiguy's response:
What happened when the Sex is gone!
Answer: Don't give up!!
Travel!! Singapur, Zambia,Peru,Kiev, those are places with girl with good expertice .'
oldbiguy replied to josesvargas's response:
When I was on Active Duty in the Far East when I was in my late teens and early 20s, the women there didn't excite me enough to want to have sex with any of them a second time, what would make me believe that has somehow changed in the last 40 years. When it comes to sex my wife is extremely skilled, she has lots of experience with several partners (she knows what she is doing in bed) and most important she is my wife. Why would I want to travel half way around the world to not want to have sex with a woman that is not my wife?

You can't give-up on something you never had. I channel my efforts into making sure my wife's sexual needs are satisfied. There is no reason to make her life miserable just because I don't want to have sex. Sex is just a physical act, it's not Love.


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