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What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
Anon_134355 posted:
If you really new me... you would know that I have so much in life but yet still depressed.

if you really knew me.... you would know that I think about suicide once a month.

If you really knew me.... you would know that I feel like I don't have a friend that I could really count on.

If you really knew me.... You would know that I feel that if I died, it would be weeks before anyone would really miss me.. or longer.

If you really know me..... you would know that I try to do anything myself, and I want it to be right.

If you really knew me.... you would know that the first think I look at when I see a person ( a guy ) is if he is hanging on the right or left.
gq12 responded:
I feel your pain, but this is tough on here for anyone to really help. If you are lonely, try finding some activities to get involved in, go out to a public place and mix it up with the locals, or just go out to a park or take a walk and try to see the world ib a different light. Hang on. By the way, nothing wrong with checking to see if a guy is hanging to the left or the right!
texas7tl responded:
If you really new me... you would know I feel the same way..
If you really new me.. you would know that I don't fit in.. I am 7 of 7.. and i'm not part of the collective.
If you really new me.. you would now that months would go by before I was missed.
If you really new would know that you don't know me at all.
davedsel2 replied to texas7tl's response:
To the original poster and texas7tl:

Please seek counseling asap if you have not already done so. My 23 year old son was just in a psychiatric hospital for 9 days last month with severe depression and wanting to commit suicide. He is now getting outpatient counseling and taking an antidepressant.

I myself have been there and am bipolar. I understand what you are feeling fully, but need to encourage you to get the help you need asap. If you need to, go to a local hospital emergency room and they will get you the help you need.

You do matter. You have value. You can get help and healing.

I feel so strongly about this that I will not use my anonymous id but my real WebMD login name. Please post any questions and let me know how you are doing.

I will be praying that you get the help and healing you need soon.
bigred53 replied to davedsel2's response:
I agree with Dave. You are worth being healthy and happy. If you don't feel you can talk to someone in person there are other communities here on Webmd that may be helpful to you. Or continue posting here. There are many compassionate and caring people who are willing to help in any way they can. Dave and I are just the first two.

I've been through a deep depression and I was able to come out of it with the help of medication and therapy.

I wish both of you the best and I too will be adding prayers.


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