Skip to content

    Announcements

    Exciting News for WebMD Members!

    We've been busy behind the scenes building new message boards for you. You'll have new and easier ways to find messages, connect with others, and share your stories.

    And, this will all be available on your smartphone or other mobile device!

    What Do You Need to Do?

    The message board you're used to will be closing in the coming weeks. While many of your boards will be making the move to our new home, your posts will not. Want to keep a discussion going? Save posts you want to continue (this includes your member profile story), so that you can re-post them in the new message boards.

    Keep an eye here and on your email inbox, we'll be back in touch soon to give you all the information you need!


    Yours in health,
    WebMD Message Boards Management

    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    Friend w/ Benefit
    avatar
    Bud41 posted:
    Many times I have read post that describe having friends with benefits; I'm curious to how your relationship evolved. Did it just happen or was it a relationship that evolved. If I were looking for a friend of this nature, what would I be looking for? and How would I go about starting the conversation leading up to a friend with benefits. Just curios as to how & under what circumstances your relationship happened.
    Reply
     
    avatar
    zoom1969 responded:
    A lot of times it is just a feeling you get and it's not really even something you have to talk about! Most of my male friends I have never been attracted to sexually but just a few I have been attracted to through the years. The 2 or 3 buds w/ benefits that I have had it just kind of happened!. First of all you have to make sure that it is something that you want to explore/ do. I always make sure that it is someone very trustworthy/ discreet. Make sure it doesn't hurt your friendship and make things awkward. We are just regular guys that hang out having a few beers, catching some games, and discussing life. We just have an extra added benefit. My first experience with a buddy was when I was around 20 years old. I had been friends with this guy for several years but there was just this unique chemistry between us. At the time I had never thought about doing anything with a guy before! One day on his birthday we were hanging out and he asked me to give him a blow job!! I thought he was just being funny and I laughed. He was embarrassed but serious. I'm not really sure why but I said ok and it just kind of happend and it was amazing! We are still friends all of these years later. We haven't messed around in a long time but we did for several years and it was always fun!
     
    avatar
    gq12 replied to zoom1969's response:
    I have been curious for years but never seriously thought about haveing a bud w/ benefits. Then one day I went to a nude beach and spotted a guy that caught my eye who was also alone. We started talking and quickly started flirting then touching! I was amazed at how comfortable I felt. We talked via text msgs and met up a 2nd time where it went further (oral). I am supposed to meet him again in the next few days. This is something I never planned for, it just happened.
     
    avatar
    rudy223 replied to gq12's response:
    Lucky you Go for it and have the time of your life. There is nothing better than being with another man le us know how it goes
     
    avatar
    Torcal responded:
    It's easier when you are gay and willing to admit it. I'm unqualified to testify about women.

    I've had, and still have, a few buddies who like to get together to just talk about mutual interests and go places but always with the purpose of ending up the day (or even starting it) by having sex. Or we just make a date, walk into each other's places, take off our clothes and spend our time nude until we get so horny we have to get each other off.

    I was at a gay event and this guy handed me his card and asked me to call. I did and we started having sex the first time we met. We became close and he eventually got the idea that we were an item. He's about twenty-five years older than I. He wouldn't take no for an answer and considered me "his boy". I cut off the relationship for about a year. I do like the guy and enjoy his company. Later we started talking again and decided that we'd just be sex buddies and that's how it's been since.

    I met several other guys who live near me on a gay web site. We got together on a sex-only basis and I've maintained a relationship with one of them for the last five years.

    If you're out in public and notice some single guy staring at you that's an invitation to talk. Introduce yourself and just let it happen. And you can do the staring until some other guy stops by to talk to you.

    Always take precautions and don't exchange bodily fluids or bacteria with someone you barely know.


    Helpful Tips

    i am 14 years old male
    I am 14 years old and i did not produce sperm or other liquid also i don't feel orgasm what to do ? some weeks ago there was liquid ... More
    Was this Helpful?
    0 of 0 found this helpful

    Report Problems With Your Medications to the FDA

    FDAYou are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit the FDA MedWatch website or call 1-800-FDA-1088.