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Is it ok to masturbate to web cam models?
An_243115 posted:
Do you guys feel that masturbating to live girls on webcam is a healthy alternative to infidelity? For example using as my "fix" to this overwhelming feeling to have sex with as many women as possible
gymrat44 responded:
Seems like 'sure, it's OK' would be an easy answer, but things are really not that simple. Sure, we guys are hardwired to go out and make as many babies as possible, that's part of who we are. However, the need to bond with a partner to share in caring for children requires a couple to be strongly commited to each other. How to balance these? And even if it's just the two of you and there are no children in the picture it's important for the two of you to have a relationship based on openness and mutual trust.

I might suggest that you talk with your partner and tell her that you have this need and that you have found a way to satisfy it without physical contact with anyone else. She probably would not want to sit in with you while you enjoy yourself with a webcam partner -- but she might surprise you. Not knowing either of you I can't predict how such a talk might go but I would suggest that you consider it. Building up feelings of guilt shouldn't be part of good sexual enjoyment.
manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44

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