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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    Toys? Props? Etc? Anyone have a favorite? Or something to avoid?
    doogood posted:
    I can't recall this subject mentioned here so I thought I'd start a discussion. Personally, I enjoy using sex toys - both with my wife and by myself. I have a collection of cock/ball restraints, leather harnesses, butt plugs (including a tail), even old fashioned clothes pins and a cotton rope. We/I don't use these items every time a sexual escapade is experienced, but they come in handy when we want to spice things up! So - I pose this to the group - what do you like to use to enhance your experience with or with out a partner and/or what have you tried that you would stongly suggest we stay away from? For myself - I enjoy my fox tail butt plug. Judge me if you want, but it allows me to be free - psychologically - from my human thought process and let loose a little more 'anamalistic' where my basic needs of sex are experienced and enjoyed. Now, do I ignor my wife and forget I'm a human being in a loving relationship - no. But it's an aid to allow me to relax and enjoy a different perspective on the act of sex. Plus my wife really gets into this scenario too so it works for both of us! Bonus! I also enjoy a snug ball strap. Not to the point of amputation, but something that lifts and separates feels great to me. Anyone else care to share with class what extra-ordinary items you use to push you out of your comfort zone while still playing it safe? Thanks!
    gymrat44 responded:
    A metal and leather cockring attached to a dog leash can be fun when one is playing the role of "slave" . . . and since our brains are our largest sex organs, having an interesting fantasy can be fun once in a while.
    manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
    jrocker85 replied to gymrat44's response:
    I have a gel 'figure 8" that you insert the penis in one hole balls in the other with a vibrating egg in the middle and a little finger to stimulate the clit, it holds all the blood so you are extremely engorged and purple and veiny, I love to have my balls pulled and it takes care of my wife by tickling her clit and the egg humms her into multiple gasms that she begs me to take it off and then finish naturally.
    doogood replied to gymrat44's response:
    And just as enjoyable for the role of "master"! I whole-heartedly agree with your statement gymrat - our brains are our largest sex organs. Fantasy and the ideas that I can dream up are amazing! And being able to act those out from time to time is a big bonus! I have a couple of cock rings of various constrictions with a d-ring for just that purpose - and have put them to use in this manner. It's a great turn on for me! Thanks for adding to the conversation!
    doogood replied to jrocker85's response:
    Ahh yes - very confining yet without the feeling of having the circulation cut off. Very important to be able to relax and enjoy the pressure. And I can relate to the - extremely engorged, purple, veiny description. It's almost like you're looking at someone else and/or thinking "holy crap! is that my cock?" And I can so understand about having the balls pulled. Its almost undescribable how good that can feel! Glad to hear there are others that enjoy using toys to enhance their pleasure. And I truly look at it as an enhancement - not a replacement - to an enjoyable sex life. Thanks for the comments jrocker!
    ruasbizze2 responded:
    Doogood and others...I have used several toys both with and without the wife. OUR favorite is a long purple soft jel vibrating cock. We use it to add to our lovemaking whenever we agree to bring it out of the drawer. MY favorite is a curved purple prostate massager that I can insert comfortably and leave in place while I masturbate. Both add to our orgasm intensity. Why not use 'em if they do the deal without distraction.
    doogood replied to ruasbizze2's response:
    Exactly ruabizze2! So many people have a hang up or issue with "SEX TOYS". The purpose is to enhance a feeling, situation, idea, etc.. I have a prostate massager that has multiple vibration settings while it has an extension piece that cradles my perinium. I've used it while masturbating and while having sex with my wife. As long as these items add to and don't distract from the experience I say go for it! For us they bring out the creative side of sex which in turn brings us closer!

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