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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    What to do about those hot ripped male bodies
    LotusHeart posted:
    This topic has been touched upon a number of times in various threads in this community. These days, hot muscular hard bodies are all over the media. Actors are way more muscular than they ever were. And they are all clean shaven. For example, see Rob Riches or

    Now there is no question that these muscular bodies are sexually attractive to both women AND men, otherwise advertisers wouldn't be using them on men products. You don't have to be gay to appreciate a beautiful male physique, and if it's a physique you would like to have, it makes it even more erotic. Women are familiar with that type of eroticism for years, but it's only in the last 20 years that men have been exposed to these types of images.

    In that context, I have three questions for folks that are on the straight side of the sexual continuum: 1) have you ever masturbated at the thoughts of another man's muscles, and which parts were the biggest turn on. And 2) have you ever masturbated while admiring your own muscles in the mirror? And 3) how happy are you with how your own body looks?
    jrocker85 responded:
    Good question Lotus. I have had a fantasy about this and if I was able to I would like to penetrate a guy from the rear as I do with women so I could feel his body from the shoulders down to his ass and be able to feel chest muscles to compare to breasts. That all came from seeing this guy I work with and admired his ass which made me think about it.
    I have have masturbated in front of the mirror admiring my muscles or at least the physique that I have worked on over the years. I am still working on the whole package to tighten up the core and add definition. A little camera shy to post a partial pic like gq....,
    gymrat44 responded:
    Good post on an important topic.

    For a change I'll be brief and just answer the questions:
    1. Yes -- and I'm probably a pec man. Sometimes I think I could bring myself to orgasm just by massaging them alone. It hasn't work but the effort is pleasurable. I began to admire other guys' muscles in bodybuilding ads in comic books back when I was a kid even before I could produce semen (those were the days -- the 'dry shoot' with nothing to clean up; semen took some getting used to when adolescence set in). And I still do.
    2. Yup, enjoy the mirror, multiple ones if possible. Like to watch the goosebumps form on my pecs and the little dots on the edge of my nipples get tight while the teats themselves get long and hard. And watch my chest heave as I get myself increasingly excited! And finally watch semen shoot from different angles --extra points for getting it on the mirror.
    3. I work out hard and am getting more and more pleased with the manly physique I present myself. But I am highly critical of the work which I believe remains to be done.
    manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
    uniquescreenname responded:
    I might have to ask if I qualify as being on the straight side of the sexual continuum - and I believe I do. LOL! Using the Kinsey scale from 0-6, I'd put myself a solid 1. Given that, yes, I have totally used the thoughts of another man's muscles as grist for the maturbation mill. Inthinknfor the majority of us between .5 and 3 on the Kinsey, that is a more common occurrence than it might have been 30 years ago, especially given the extreme rise in graphically representing the male form on TV, in movies, and in print campaigns (I'm not a David Beckham fan, but I SURE would like to see his cock under that fancy underwear he's promoting!).

    I will always choose women and an opposite-sex scenario when I consider a relationship, but the thought of being with a hot guy I saw on TV or in a movie is, I think, a healthy and innocent way to experience man-to-man sexual fantasies, even if they are sadly only in my head.

    I work out, yes, but I'd rather look at another male than myself when jerking off. There are times when I like to see my expressions in the mirror, but I see me every day. HaHa. Give me something new and dangerous to ogle. I look fine, yes, but I'd rather see my work buddy buck naked in my mirror.

    Thank goodness I found this forum of like-minded guys. It gives me comfort knowing that we're not alone, even if we are only supporting each other online and from afar. No one else I can talk to, except my work buddy, would understand - or, perhaps, ADMIT - to finding men sexually attractive and intriguing. Keep it up. No pun intended. :-;
    bj102364 responded:
    1. No
    2. No, but I am turned on by looking at my own physique.
    3. Happy but I'm always working to improve. My aim is to be the hot muscular guy others admire. Although I have room to improve, when I see shirtless guys at a pool or such, very seldom do I see anyone with whom I would want to trade physiques. At age 48, I think that is saying something.

    I agree, you don't have to be gay to appreciate a great male physique.
    Jagmen responded:
    Of course I have. And I agree with you. There is no need to be gay to appreciate a beautiful male body.
    seattleron responded:
    Good question

    1. another mans muscles absolutely...pecs

    2. Yes.

    3. Okay... but that is what keeps me hitting the gym. And number one question is would probably answer the same
    Jagmen responded:
    I have.
    seattleron responded:
    I just read this string and appreciated the comments so I will add mine. I grew up in a troubled house..the primary feelings I had were un wanted and fear no positive connection available only critical things said no praise and only the constant "Look"

    I discovered my fathers stash of porn about age 10 on top of beam in the basement where I had elected to spend most of my time because it one there to critisise me. Well, I was awed at the naked males more than the women. Probably because I felt most rejected by mother. The pictures showed me what my body would look like as a man. Wow, handsome powerful ... Soon I found myself mb blanks to those male images fantasizing I had their body. In my mind I just knew it was wrong but it made me feel wanted and self love. Saddly not having anything else I became fixated on the mb release. Things only got worse for me in my home life.

    Had I had buddies we might have done the adolescent naked bonding sex "together" which would have been fun at the time. But for me it got twisted when another kid who was popular that I did not know invited me to his house one Saturday to see his ham radio in the room in the garage. There in the radio room he shows me these gay porn mags and I was immediately aroused and scared but powerless to leave. It was easy for him to seduce me. There was nothing fun about it all he wanted was my body. When it was over in a few minutes I immediately left. : I will never do that again. Well two weeks later he called again and I did do it. That set me up for another similar guy seducing me at 17 and this continued as anonymous sex for many years. Lust and an orgasm but no connection. I did not know what intimacy was because I had never experienced it.

    Today, I stay away from that behavior. But I still think find a pictures or naked handsome models are awesome and this fuels me to work my own body to look the best it can. The guys in HS who had the body I wanted are now slackers but not me. I am a young 67 with the build of a lean 18 year old. Recently, I have studied and decided to begin injection Peptides HGH Fragment 176 - 191 and a CJ 1245. If this stuff provides half of what it promises I am going to have fun leaning out and putting on muscle where I want it. Maybe by summer I will want to have my shirt off all the time. Showing off my physic but not for m4m sex.

    I have heard you guys here speak about male naked time and that intrigued me. I think we should ask for what we want. So I posted a Craigslist platonic ad. "Married male 4 Married male naked time? I was surprised I got 12 responses. One 35 yo guy said he had hosted two such events and they were fun. One at his place and the other with 4 guys out on his boat all naked one Saturday afternoon. I told him I was a bit overwhelmed with the response and not having done this before if he might want to host this and invite his friends. He was specific that "It was not about sexual" Just time to enjoy our maleness together.

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