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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    shooter or oozer
    sandalman posted:
    Ok, it seams like every porno has some guy absolutely shooting his load like a cannon.
    This hardly ever happens to me. Sometimes I get a little squirt, but then I just ooze and ooze with each pump. I think I really produce a lot of semen, even when I do it everyday. I'm just assuming its because I have a really wide slit, but I'd like to know if anyone has some insight on this.

    What about you guys... Do you ooze out or squirt?
    jrocker85 responded:
    Can do both depends on the frequency and stimulation if your producing enough semen then try something different. Edge for a longer period of time or skip a day or two to see if changes things .. Also search the threads here there were posts about ejaculate volume and supps to promote bigger loads.
    gq12 replied to jrocker85's response:
    I am somewhere in between. I shoot, just not too far. The most I remember in recent history was maybe 3 feet, but then the remaining shots will go less far and eventually begin to more of an ooze. Excitement level definitely has an impact on distance.
    gymrat44 responded:
    I think we can all shoot, ooze or dribble somewhere in between, all depending on how we're feeling and how we're masturbating at any particular time.

    Sometimes in the shower I may have some residue of morning wood which only seems to be encouraged to grow when I wash my penis. Some days when I'm in a hurry I think of that as a 'nuisance erection' -- it needs attention but I really don't have time to get into it. I'll pump it with one hand while I continue washing another body part with the other (not a bad technique, really) and once penis has been adequately stimulated there will be some ooze as the manly cycle completes. Sometimes you just owe it one.

    Then there are those times when you choose to put the major part of an evening into self-fulfillment. I've been known to take several hours when I know I'll be alone to relax fully by shutting myself away where I can't be heard. After a good hot whirlpool I'll take my damp, nude self to my bed and lie on my back, get some lube and start gently stroking. Again I'll follow the one-hand technique: when masturbating only touch your penis with one hand at a time. With the other, caress a body part. When your penis gets hard, try to find another body part which is hard. Rub them both, see if one feels harder, and how the hardness feels different. And if you shave your cock regularly, then feel the smoothness of your cock's skin with one hand while you find another smooth, hairless place and see how smooth both of them are. As one hand starts to feel some precum, start licking your other hand -- see how different the two moistures feel. Relax, enjoy all the sensations. Feel the hightened tensions grow in your loins and as you start to feel some tightening in that area, back off and relax a little. Enjoy 'edging' and encounter the delight of having the relaxation of orgasm sweep over you as your dick remains hard without yet having ejaculated.

    Continue the session some more, being sure to add some more lube as you progress. You'll be glad you shut the windows since in your relaxed state you may find yourself making some happy moans and groans -- sounds probably best kept to yourself. Enjoy feeling your hair, your muscles contract and relax; switch hands and see if sometimes you can get your penis "confused" by its being caressed by another hand. As time passes and your tension grows your muscles will tighten up all over your body. You may find your hips lifting up off the mattress and starting to make those thrusting moves we seem to come hard-wired with. Your moans may become louder, almost turning into shouts as you feel the point of no return coming. At that point two hands is OK -- and you may have become so big and hard and firm that it will take both hands to grab your penis, one at the base and one next to it at the top. Holding loosely and moving quickly you're about to ejaculate -- and when you do, that's when you will truly shoot. That's the time when I have gotten semen all over my face and into my hair, with a trail going down to my chest. Then it's a great time just to let all your muscles relax as you have no fire left in you and gently drift off into a sound sleep.

    And you can always clean up in the morning.

    Ooze or squirt, they're both great, both to be appreciated in their own place.
    manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
    silverteenager replied to gymrat44's response:
    well that was hot
    tallguy replied to gymrat44's response:
    I am turned on!!!!!
    gq12 replied to gymrat44's response:
    yes, that was great gymrat!!!
    sandalman replied to gymrat44's response:
    Thanks for that...
    I've also just discovered that if I have something rubbing my prostate, that I have more power behind it... more of a harder eruption by not quite a shoot!
    ragon437 replied to gymrat44's response:
    Thats was awesome! I usually orgasm a lot and shoot far. If im laying down it goes over my head to headboard or even on my shaved head. I usually put my hand out so that it doesnt hot my face.
    festival1942 responded:
    I do both depending on how long it's been since I last ejaculated. Actually, I like to masturbate and ride the edge a long time everyday but only fully ejaculate twice a week and then I shoot big loads. The other night I was very excited and ejaculated 3 times in a few hours and each time the semen amount diminished somewhat.
    sandalman replied to gymrat44's response:
    Thanks gym for adding that. I just did some of this last night. I edges myself a couple of times with some visual stimulation and gave my prostate a rubbin.
    I actually did shoot a couple inches up on to my stomach, but I've noticed that it was a greater amount and thinner. Part of it was still the regular thick consistency.
    Thanks man
    festival1942 replied to gymrat44's response:
    This is so hot I've got pre-cum flowing now as I edge. Thanks for this post.
    jrocker85 replied to festival1942's response:
    This is sort of related, after strenuous workouts I usually have to hit the can, while I'm pinching I leak prostate fluid.. After the workouts it's enough to take notice so instead of pointing down to the bowl I hold myself to see how much.. On occasion it shot to the floor with a splat.. I'm wondering if its common to shoot so much from exercise..
    gymrat44 replied to jrocker85's response:
    Never noticed that about leaking fluid after a strenuous work-out, although I can see it could happen.

    As I described a while back in another post the abdominal muscular contraction done as part of a regular bench press has enough similarity to that done in regular humping that it can cause an ejaculation. Once early one morning I was waiting for my hard-on to subside so I could pee and to pass the time went into the next room to pump out some bench presses. I was surprised that after about five presses a load of semen came flying out onto my abdomen! Yes, I was hard, but I certainly wasn't expecting that result.

    So, jrocker, next time I have a "ballbuster" of a workout I'll stop in the can afterwards, give myself a squeeze and see what happens. Always great learning new things about your body and what it can do.
    manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44

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