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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    DAVIDKL posted:

    I Need help how to tune my mind so that I will have longer and stronger erection ? My penis will get erection when I see sexy dressed lady, but not very hard.

    I supposed, I'm not good continuing my sexual imagination creation.
    Help me.

    stevesmw responded:
    Are you talking about a real person or an electronic image?

    The real world places constraints on behavior.

    In a private situation you can take your mind wherever you want it to go. Good fantasies are better than porn and you can replay the scene in your own mind for a long time.

    As an example a friend from work who I was attracted to knocked on the door of my apartment. She said she came over to give me a birthday kiss and she gave me a nice kiss on my mouth. She brought her dog with her witch obviously was communicating a message. I thanked her for the kiss and she left.

    I've replayed that scenario over and over in my mind for more than 30 years. Sometimes I just think about what I would do if a situation presented itself again and a lot of time I turn the situation into a very good erotic fantasy.

    You don't even need to look at a picture. You can think about an image and a situation and you can let your mind take you in a lot of erotic places and your penis will follow.
    DAVIDKL replied to stevesmw's response:
    Hi Steve,
    Im talking about real person.

    I was told it could be venous leakage.

    DAVIDKL replied to DAVIDKL's response:
    I was told the venous leakage can caused the blood to FLOW OUT very fast.

    An_252350 responded:
    Hey buddy! Going through your query this is not a big issue. Stop being afraid
    Here is a reply just go through it

    Premature ejaculation is associated with infrequent sex, men with low frequencies of sexual activity often get extra excited and aroused,It can manifest as performance anxiety when sex presents itself.

    v Causes premature ejaculation

    "022 There's not one cause; it's a combination of factors.

    "022 Some believe anxiety is the culprit, repetitive learned behaviors, excessive or insufficient arousal, or muscular tension. They're all associated,

    "022 Addressing each of them is the key to curing premature ejaculation.

    v Methods to Stop Premature Ejaculation

    "022 Wear a condom.
    "022 Use an analgesic creams and sprays
    "022 Apply strategic pressure
    "022 Slow down intercourse

    Good that you shared your problem hope the answer will help & satisfy you.
    DAVIDKL replied to An_252350's response:
    Thanks for the input.

    Please clarify this for me, normally in the morning (when I dont fantasy myself) when I get erection, it will be there for couple of minutes.

    But when I fantasy a Girl, erection ups and down when I stop my fantasy. I believe the erection will stay for some time before it goes down. In my case I need to prolong my imagination for it to stay erect.
    DAVIDKL replied to DAVIDKL's response:
    Pls calrify : Apply strategic pressure

    seattleron replied to DAVIDKL's response:
    The frequency issue. I probably me and I rarely mb after mid 30's Some friends have suggest the "Something about Mary" jerk off before the big date? Growing up with three 2 siblings and a shared bedroom I got in the habit of a fast jerk off maybe not getting fully erect for fear of being caught. That went on a long time and I think it carries over still today. I have been thinking of using the blue pill because it might help keep it up and get the first unload out of the way. Anyone tried that?
    whimen1956 responded:
    If you want to hold your erection longer, why don't you try ED pills? Erection problems are basically rooted from poor blood circulation through the penile region due to some health issues. So you might have underlying issues which needs to be treated. ED pills can help you enhance blood flow towards the male organ so you can maintain good erection whenever you feel sexually stimulated. You may check this link for more information about ED treatments:

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