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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    Dear to whom it may concern...
    fitjock posted:
    Hello there! I have got a confession to make. I am not this macho fit man as I say I am. I am actually boy in my early teen wanting to figure a way to survive puberty. The profile pic is what I hope to look like in the future and it is Shane Smith, my idol for fitness. I have not done anything to do with blowjobs and though it sounds erotic, I do not want to be gay (no offense) and I am not sure if it is bad if I do a bj. Also, I want to grow a bigger cock so I can get girls and I am wondering if I should freeball. I heard you get layed more often if you do freeball but I am not sure if I should have sex in my teens. Also, I do not know If I should masturbate if it is bad or anything. So far you guys have been very cumforting and I hope to meet you guys in the future. gq is one very nice guy, and someone who I sort of look up to. gymrat seems really nice and sluggo has been very supportive. I wish you to answer my questions and teach me through puberty and sexuality. Also, should I taste cum..... anyways... I hope you understand I am just a boy in my early teens who has many questions. Please do not judge me and answer my questions. You guys seem really nice and have great personalities!

    Over and out,

    gymrat44 responded:
    Hi Fitjock,
    Thanks for opening up -- the more we know about each other the easier it is to share and provide some useful information.
    Somehow I'm not really surprised that your profile pic is a target and not who you have yet become. A number of years ago I was in a similar position: becoming a fit jock was important to me. I worked at it and since it was important to me I kept at it and I've not done too bad. Exercise, working out, body building -- whatever you want to call it, it is beneficial, makes you feel good and look good.

    About masturbation: it's a necessary part of a guy' life. During the course of our lives we produce a couple of gallons of sperm and let it out in delightful portions over a long period of time. Masturbating is practice. Every time you get or have a hard-on it's your body telling you that it's ready for you to squeeze out a load. So when it's possible to do it, go ahead and enjoy it. Try not to rush it; get to know yourself and how you feel while doing it. See some earlier posts here which may give some ideas I know I've written a bunch -- no point in keeping this experience to myself.

    Don't be in a hurry to get through puberty -- or how big your penis is. It will be your good buddy for years, just respect it, use it responsibly and enjoy! And let us know how you're doing. And when specific questions come up, just ask. I'm sure one or more of us here will be glad to pass along our thoughts.
    manhood should be enjoyed, not proven -- gymrat44
    sluggo45692 responded:
    Hello fitjock,
    I'm a dad of a 17 year old young man. I have a nephew who is gay. I know you have a lot of questions. Here is a couple of general answers that I hope help. I don't know your situation, but sounds like you don't have a dad you can talk to in your life.
    1. Don't rush it. The girls are just as confused as you are. I'm not gay and knew it when I was young. That was the only thing I did know. I didn't know how to talk to girls. I knew I wanted something, but didn't have a clue what it was.
    2. Your penis is your penis, but your more than your penis. It's mostly for your satisfaction. Each woman is different and a lot like a normal size penis. What good is a penis if every time you get hard, you get light headed for loss of blood flow or can't put it all in? If she says it's to small, then you don't want to be with her because her brain is to small to enjoy you as a man.
    3. Porn is not real sex. It's a show. Most women can't swallow down to her naval and don't like to be choked or throw up. Most don't like having a penis slammed straight up their butt without proper preparation, but a lot like anal sex. Porn is fantasy and fake. Yes, you will find women who like to do all the things you see on film, but only if you take it slow and allow them to be comfortable with it.
    4. Free balling is a personnel choice. I myself don't, because I don't like to keep adjusting myself in public. Girls look at you funny if you keep touching youself in front of them. I do suggest you keep yourself clean and trimmed. Shaving is your choice, but as it grows back it can be bothersome.
    5. The number one thing you have to do is BE YOURSELF. If you lie, you have to keep lying and soon you'll forget what you lied about. Don't lie to a girl/woman and really don't lie to yourself.
    6. If your gf ask you "do these pants make me look fat?" Here's your answer. "I don't like those pants on you and you need to take them off right now, because I just like what's in them." 2 things may happen. Off they come or she laughs and says you have a one tract mind. Both are better than pissing her off. If you don't like what she's wearing, then tell her. She wants to look good for you.
    Good Luck
    fitjock replied to sluggo45692's response:
    thanks guys. you are really nice!
    fitjock replied to fitjock's response:
    Can anyone else also answer my questions? please read!
    fitjock replied to fitjock's response:
    Read above!
    sluggo45692 responded:
    Hey Fitjock,

    Where are your questions?
    fitjock replied to sluggo45692's response:
    Don't worry. The questions are in the first body of text at the top and you have already answered them. Just want some other people to actually read it because some guy thinks I'm weird about stuff... just want him to read this thread then he will understand! Don't worry about you as you have been extremely nice!

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