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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    In public?
    shortman_eric posted:
    This board has a lot of exhibitionists it seems, so I wonder, how many of you have masturbated and/or fooled around in a more public place at all. Meaning like a public restroom, a small corner of a library, etc.

    I will admit that I've fooled around in a public bathroom once and it was really exciting. It was one that wasn't used often, but still busy enough that people could have easily come in.
    gq12 responded:
    I've masturbated in bathrooms, gyms, etc.

    I've also had sex in a lot of public places: beaches, golf course, convertible parked off the road, pools, hot tubs, balconies, etc.
    john-skpt responded:
    I have in the past, but I tend to always be a little distracted by the risk of arrest. I never do it to shock anyone, more just to be outdoors and in a different setting.

    Cars (of course), woods (but definitely not a city park), beaches (generally in a not-too-obvious place), a hotel balcony (but 90% if the folks in that neighborhood were gay too, so there wasn't much chance of shocking some old woman leaving church), and once in a stalled elevator.
    Commando14 responded:
    Beaches, parks, while camping, backyard, in the car, pretty much anywhere outside is always fun. Havent done it in a while but am looking forward to the warmer weather.
    phsaceo replied to Commando14's response:
    Long car rides works pretty well, got to help pass the time??
    GreenJeans421 responded:
    Definitely on a long car ride. I am discrete though, its more for the fun and pleasure, and Im not trying to be seen. I have done public bathrooms, but not out in the open. I would love to try a park or while camping. I wish my backyard was more private because I would be naked outside all the time.
    gymguygreg responded:
    I have masturbated in a number of public places where there was a high chance of getting caught. I want to share two times when I was being watched and loved every second of it.

    One time I was at a nude beach on the gay side. At the end of the day the beach had gotten pretty quiet but there were still guys there. I decided to lay back and stroke. I kept an eye out each direction in case the beach was patrolled. I saw two guys walking my way and decided to keep jacking. When they got tome, they asked if they could sit and watch. I loved giving them a good show. Both had erections before I was done but they continued down the beach without taking care of them.

    Another time I was at a business meeting out of town and staing on a highrise city hotel. There was another hotel directly across the street. After dinner one night I went to my room and left the floor to ceiling drapes open as I undressed. Directly across from me I saw a very attractive woman looking directly at me. I couldn't help but get excited and got an erection without touching myself. It was even more thrilling knowing more people might be looking on that I wasn't aware of. I decided to jack for her. As I was performing, she started to undress. Little by little all her clothes came off and it wasn't until the end that I realized "she" was a "he." He was very well endowed and ending up putting on a show for me, too.
    shortman_eric replied to gymguygreg's response:
    let's be serious here...*BOING*
    Contemplating19 responded:
    When my gf and I were together I tried constantly to get her to have sex with me outdoors... she refused.

    So, that is another fantasy I have yet to fulfill...
    pogo99 replied to Contemplating19's response:
    Two experiences for me...I had sex with wife in a hotel room balcony...11th floor ocean view..pretty cool!! I also got a BJ in gym's sauna once. The idea of getting caught doesn't excite me at all. I rather do this in private. Yeah, I know...I could be boring
    gq12 replied to pogo99's response:
    As I mentioned earlier I've had a few fun public sex episodes, but one of the most erotic was one that never did happen. My wife and went out for dinner, and all throughout I was thinking about nothing but sex. She was in a short dress with nothing under it! When we left I pushed her up against the side of the car and we kissed for a long time and all the while I was feeling her up from behind. We were totally out in the open but I was moments from opening up my pants and doing it right there! We probably would have been caught but that moment is engrained into my head forever!!
    gymguygreg replied to gq12's response:

    I love your spontaneity. It is awesome that you and your wife have teenage kids and still have that level of passion in your relationship. It is cool that your wife has that exhibitionistic side like you do. My wife and I still have the passion ofter 25 years but it happens in the privacy of our bedroom, not in a restaurant parking lot. I am envious. Also, being bisexual, I am jealous of what she has!!!

    gq12 replied to gymguygreg's response:
    Well Greg, the next time I see you in a short dress in a parking lot I will definitely grind up into you and get a feel from behind!!
    Manjock replied to gq12's response:
    Man if thats all I have to do to get felt up I am going to start wearing short dresses and hanging out in car parks. LOL I dont think I would look that good in a dress but I will try. LOL
    gymguygreg replied to Manjock's response:

    I have never donned a dress before but it sounds like I may go dress shopping.

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