This is a tough decission, I also live in a small town. My job puts me in contact with just about everyone. I decided to be open with my employer of 12yrs why I was missing so much work. Also, if one of my customers asked why I was waking funny or what kind of vest I was wearing(cooling) I told them and why.
Now I don't think it was the best idea. The office manager came to me with some phone numbers they got from there lawyer regarding who to contact if I needed any help with disability, Right, they just wanted to know what rights they have.
They also took me out of a position I loved & was very good at, even with MS. I work with a guy who makes more mistakes then everyone else put together, has had complaints from everyone including the customers but no one cares.
I confronted the office manager telling him I wanted my old job back but he said we noticed I made a few mistakes, forgot 1 minor thing & suddenly I'm not capable. If I made these mistakes and not had MS it would be no big deal.
I also deal with she doesn't look sick "look". The only thing that's letting MS interfere with my life is everyone else.
You don't have to justify anything to anyone. I do however have a few friends with MS that I get together with & we all get to gripe about our week. It doesn't sound like it but I will always choose to be open about my MS hoping the more people who know the more educated people will become about this disease. I wish you luck and do what makes you feel comfortable.
Hugs,
Tammy