Dear msmom36
I hope the 36 does not infer you have had 36 children

Welcome to this forum and I too am sorry you are experiencing difficulty with posting.
I too have had difficulty with this and am slowing working on it. Part has been I have been posting and replying from the wrong page and the other I think more a glitch on the site end of things.
I can't remember the name of the posting, though if you have not done so already, look for a discussion called something like Problems with Posting authored by a lady by the name of Elizabeth.
I too am relatively newish to this forum and posted my own difficulties. Soon after I noticed a posting from Elizabeth that had been brought to her attention by hackwriter - inviting people to post of any problems they were having.
I will also do what hackwriter did for me and trust you don't mind. This meaning I will copy and paste your above posting and draw it too the attention of Elizabeth.
I would not like to think you may not continue to access this website due to technical difficulties.
You also sound as though you have great expertise and a desire to exchange this for mutual benefit to posters. This is so very valuable.
Please don't feel at all silly like you wrote and keep hold of those higher hopes. It will work out.
In the mean time if you want to post your reply to my reply, I would be more than happy to then copy and paste and then post for you.
Hackwriter did this for me and it worked a treat!
I look forward to gaining from your knowledge I feel you will impart to others once your posting works (if it hasn't already by the time I post this).
Take care
Grace