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Am I an Oxymoron??
I love Jesus...and my planet.
"For By Him All things were created: things in Heaven and on Earth, visible and invisible..." -- Colossians 1:16
"In His Hand is the Life of Every Creature and the Breath of All Mankind." -- Job 12:10
I haven't always been "crunchie." In fact, I've been the total opposite. I've been wasteful, I've been a polluter, I've been unkind to this place called "Earth" for many, many years.
I never thought to be any different.
The only people I knew who were "crunchies" wore hemp skirts, wore dreadlocks, didn't shave their armpits, and played the didgeridoo. (you know, one of those 4-foot long wooden pipes that bellow out deep tones and grunts). I wasn't going to eat ants or tofu (synonymous to me a while back, LOL), or shop at those weird-smelling all-natural food stores.
I definitely wasn't going to go THAT extreme in order to be more eco-friendly and help preserve God's gift to us: our planet and its ecosystems.
But then I began to understand how our wastefulness NOW will have an effect on our children and grandchildren....and future generations.
The polluted rivers and lakes...the polluted air...the landfills overflowing with overindulgences...
So slowly, I began to notice how my actions NOW will have long-lasting effects, and I wanted to begin to change that.
I started to do some research, started to learn some of the basic jargon like "eco-friendly" and "carbon footprint."
That morphed into questioning my current living style: "How am I impacting these fragile eco-systems?"
And then began my prayer: "Lord, teach me to take care of not only my husband and my children, but also my environment."
And thus began my journey of "crunchiness."
I'm amazed to find that there aren't a lot of Christian folks practicing eco-friendliness. I don't know if it's because they, too, are worried they'll have to grow dreadlocks and not shave their armpits? I'm not quite sure.
But let me say that I feel great when I recycle, when I teach my children how to take care of our fragile ecosystems, AND when I teach them God's word.
So why do I feel like such an Oxymoron? I don't think there are very many like me out there. In fact, I'm willing to bet $100 that I'm a small percentage of the Christian community who is living eco-friendly...er, at least eco-friendlier.
Because I have a LONG ways to go before I can say that I'm totally living eco-friendly.
But one thing I want to point out: I will not love my eco-friendliness more than I love God. I can't forget to put Him first...and neither should you.
I thank God for leading me on this new journey in my life....and I hope you join me.
Tell me YOUR story...
I live in an area that is very Mormon and they seem to have a way different view on the environment than mine. From those that I have talked to anyway, they believe that God gave us the Earth to do with as we please and use it however we like to better our lives. I think this is some of how a lot of the Christians you refered to feel (politically conservative think), that God will give more and more and we don't have to worry about conserving the resources.
It drives me nuts when I see political conservatives say "oh yeah that global warming" during a blizzard. Regardless of whether or not we are effecting the global climate or not, the bottom line is we are allowing way too much pollution into our atmosphere and there are a bunch of other negative effects like increased asthma and cancer from breathing all that nastiness. In the long run does producing cheaper energy cost us more with our health and lives.
Anyway, I try not to discuss my political beliefs, so I will stop now after I say that I am not a political liberal either, I am one of those fence sitting independant centrists.
I think it's great that you are learning more and trying to do better by the environment. I think if everyone took even one step in that direction it would go a long way. I remember in college one of my peers was recycling her pop can and said if you really stop to think about the effect of recycling even one can, to keep it out of the landfill, think about the effects if everyone recycled all cans. I recycle and take about one kitchen bag in per week. That is one whole bag that would have otherwise gone to the landfill. I also compost my kitchen scraps which would probably amound to 1/4 to 1/2 a bag of trash. Every little bit helps!
I recycle, limit my usage of resources, though I am not as "crunchy" as many of the moms here.
But I do think that by limiting our family to birthing only 1 or 2 kids, my family will be making a very big impact by reducing a lifetime of waste. I'm not saying kids are a waste! They are wonderful. But facts are facts. Each new person on this earth will undeniably create exponential amounts of waste.
I think I am going to have to disagree with you here. I know we are not going to have a large family (unless our next pregnancy is multiples) but based on my own experiences with those I know with large families it seems the opposite of your theory is true. It would seem logical to me that a family with several children would be much more responsible and thrifty with their resources and live a simpler lifestyle than a family with one or two children and the same resources to use.
I will take one of the families we know who believe in the "Quiver-full" principles of the Bible and have 6 children: All 6 are/were homeschooled (some have graduated) thus reducing pollution from transportation to school on buses. Clothes are mostly hand-me-downs from the older siblings and are purchased for their ability to last and be handed down. They almost never eat out at restaurants and shopping and meal preparation is done carefully. They grow vegetables and some fruits in a garden and shop locally for items they don't grow. They own a couple chickens for fresh, free eggs. Vacations are taken in their camper to places they can drive.
Now compare this to a smaller family with approximately the same income level (I will use my family of 3 as an example): We seldom buy anything used (every now and then I will pick something up from a yard sale or Craig's List but it is only toys and decor for my house), we don't grow anything, it is all purchased from a grocery store. We eat out at least twice a week. We travel (fly) at least once a year in addition to driving places and take a cruise at least every other year. We live in a bigger house than we NEED and pay to heat and cool all of it.
Who would you say lives a more eco-friendly lifestyle?
TYPICALLY the smaller families I see are the ones creating waste. They practically drive semi-trucks to drop off their one child at school and are forever getting their styrofoam cups from Starbucks and bags of food from McDonald's. And I am absolutely not condemning anyone's decision or questioning anyone's right to do so. I was willing to put myself up as an example and I can admit that I have many changes I can make (and am looking into making) to do my part as I see fit. In my life and what I know to be true from my experiences I just don't think it is fair to say generally that it is the families who have many children who are doing more to damage the eco-system than those who do not.
I totally agree with you Kim about the ideas we have of those who are eco friendly. Heck, I resisted doing EC because I thought that's the only reason people did it--to save on diaper costs. Once he started being more predictable with the poos, I looked into it again, and realized that it's even more to help them become aware of the body processes and to keep them dry and comfortable.

And this was from a different thread, but I think LeftCoastGirl was explaining how some of her ecofriendly practices are devired from living in an condo in the city, and how her carbon footprint has been reduced just simply from being within close proximity to her resources (grocery store, work, etc.). If she had an extremely large family, that type of lifestyle would probably not be possible. (Hope you don't mind me using your example LCG, but it was just too perfect from what I was thinking when I started reading this lol).
And let's not forget... the whole crunchy environmentalist movement was birthed from liberal ideals that aren't often embraced by people who practice a conservative lifestyle. As Sarah pointed out, people who are very conservative Christians typical back conservative, Republican politicians, those whose government policies favor (which is putting it lightly) industry and big agri-business, which are responsible for most of the planet's environmental destruction (not to mention human and animal rights violations). I mean, what is growing your own vegetables and using some ecofriendly shampoo really going to do if you aren't also supporting the environmental movement from the bigger picture?

Because we all choose what's most important to us personally. And what might be my one overriding sway to vote a certain way doesn't mean that it's someone else's.

I understand not wanting to tread into controversial areas, but often religion and politics go hand in hand so to discuss one, the other comes into play.
And what you said is true, that we all have personal priorities that shape our voting choices, that is the beauty of America that we have the freedom to think and act as we wish. To me neither of the two parties in our system can cover everyone's personal platform, so we all have to prioritize issues and do our part to do what we think is right.
I am politically conservative, a Christian, AND I have a large family.

I know I don't do enough for the environment. We recycle, I buy eco-friendly cleaning products, I grow a small garden, we have been planting more trees/greenery at our new house, I reuse my newspapers to clean glass instead of using paper towels, we bought all new energy star rated appliances, ...etc.
But I still use not-so-natural bath and body products, I use disposable diapers and wipes, and I use a lot of air fresheners. LOL And lots of other things that are probably not so good for the environment.
I don't think anyone can be perfectly crunchie. And I don't think that not changing every aspect of your life to be eco-friendly means you're not a good steward of God's earth.

And it definitely doesn't make you an oxymoron, or a hypocrite. No worries. We all should try to do what we can live with.

Bottom line, I'm cheap!


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