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He said, "there's nothing we can do for it, no surgery would help you, it's progressive. Here's some naproxen, call me in four weeks."
That pretty much takes away my ability to support myself with absolutely NO direction whatsoever! The more I think about it, the more appalled and dissatisfied I am with that consult. No MRI, no real tests. He looked at old x-rays online, three quick views that showed nothing. Did a little manipulation and sent me on my way.
I refuse to accept that as an end! Without the ability to walk...and walk A LOT...I am homeless. That just can't be the END of it all! Don't specialist treat osteoarthritis as well as rheumatoid?
I asked about braces since it's screaming painful. He said, "well, you could wrap it if you wanna keep it warm or something but nothing really does much good." He said, "well, you COULD get cortisone injections" then changed the subject!
And the more I write out what this guy said, the more upset I get. What doctor gives you a DEVASTATING diagnosis and then says, "I got nothing for ya, have a nice day, and pay your copay on your way out" Okay, HE didn't say that last part, his receptionist did!
So I'm going to put on the $50 knee brace I bought at CVS and get ready for another brutal night at work. I would SO appreciate some advice! I feel like a bomb got dropped in my life and it's just "too bad! Here's an aspirin!"
I've worked SO hard all my life...raised two kids waitressing and bartending. I'm back in college but only a sophomore and YEARS from having a degree that will help me get out of the restaurant industry. And NOW...another devastating thing about this knee thing is I can't sit! I think the reason it's so bad right now is from sitting in class! So...walking is OUT. Sitting is OUT. How do you support yourself from a recliner?? That's the ONLY time I'm out of pain.
Thank you in advance to anyone who has some advice!
I am sorry you are in pain. Have you considered asking your doctor for help with disability, or consider working from home? You can Google WAH Customer Service and do some research.
Take care,
Lainey
have you tried enzyme therapy with joint hydration?
like you, me and my family have experiences similar to yours
and have found relief naturally
David
As for doctors - there are many with difficult personalities and some are good clnicians with difficult personalities while others are difficult and also not great clinicians. So choosing a physician is really up to you! I always start by researching out the doctor by asking asking trusted people that I know, google the provider seeking information regarding ratings and statements by other patients (see ratemds.com) for example.
Do your homework, don't go to any physician ever just because they are in the phone book, the last doctor in a graduating class is still called "doctor"! Do your research, read information from internet sources that are reptuable -google OA and read information from the association of orthopedic surgeons, webmd, mayo clinic and other reputable web sites. Stay away from message board discussions that discuss "personal experience" as the criteria from which to make medical decisions from, seek well stated professional medical information and then make a provider selection based on how you have armed yourself. Go in with a check list, read about artifical synovial fluid replacement (knee fluid replacement), hydrocortisone injections (decreases inflamation - result of wear and tear on joint - increased swelling equals massive pain!) and develop a personalized question list based on what you have read and understood.. Look at common treatment guidelines and then go into the doctor's office well informed with a checklist of questions. Take someone with you who will remember what you forget that is a normal response to fear, stress or pain who will be able to help you. You will have a much better patient/physician relationship and office visit! Remember to shop around . .. you are the driver here and the provider should respect you, adress all of your concerns and not leave until you are comfortable with the issues. Be respectful of the provider time though by being well informed, they have to move patients in and out quickly to be able to pay bills and cover the office expenses. Be blessed!
I would LOVE to work from home! TALK about job security! As a waitress, I've known I was on a limited time span...even if it HAS lasted almost forty years. And, NO, that first jerk doctor didn't even allow me time to ask questions, spent LESS than 20 minutes with me. I have an appointment for a different doctor in about 10 days. If he's no better, I'll keep searching!
THANK YOU so much for that link! I'm going to explore that!
K
THANK YOU!!
Kimberly
This site alone has now brought me MUCH comfort! Just knowing I'm not the only one suffering...and BOY OH BOY is it painful when it "flares up". I have no better word for it..sometimes it's manageable, sometimes it's cripplingly painful.
But the response that you sent, whoever you are!, is immensely helpful and I'm VERY appreciative!
Kimberly
The injections help a bit - somewhat protective, the steroids are good for me for a couple of months and then I spend one month in agony which is just a sign of the significance of the wear and tear. Would delay the inevitabe TKR into never if I could -so faith, prescription drugs significant lifestyle modification (ice is my best friend) all helps.
Take care
I SAW A BACK SURGEON ON MY BACK FOR OSTEO AND DEGENIRTIVE DISKS. HE TOLD ME TO LEARN TO LIVE WITH IT ALSO CAUSE THERE WAS NOTHING TO DO BUT PAIN PILLS AND SHOTS.
A FRIEND SUGGESSTED THE TENS UNIT SO I TALKED TO MY DOC ABOUT IT. I HAVE HAD IT FOR SIX MONTHS NOW AND I SWEAR BY IT. I USE IT 2 TIMES A DAY AND IT HELPS ME GET THROUGH THE DAY WITH HARDLY ANY PAIN. YOU CAN ALSO RESEARCH IT ON THE NET. JUST TYPE IN TENS UNIT FOR PAIN.
HOPE THIS HELPS HON. IT'S HELL LIVING WITH PAIN 24-7.
GOD BLESS
BONNIE
If you are disabled but under 65, you can still apply for Social Security Disability payments and get into Medicare early; I got a Medicare card when I was only 60!
I almost forgot to tell you that my preferred analgesic is Percocet, which takes the edge off--though it is extremely constipating.
Good luck. For what it's worth, know that you're not alone. There may even be a support group where you live. Ask at your local Senior Center, if there is one.
Will be praying for you.
They have a whole thing on knee and hips they may also be able to help. Good Doctors here in NC.
chiropractor and this I think keeps me in good shape. Keep an open mind. I went through hell when I could not sit and now through chiropractic I am a good sitter. Being unable to sit is as bad as being unable to walk. Hope this hells. God Bless.
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