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Please help... Thanks, jwinchester
Rick
Thanks again, jwinchester
Now, as for you, don't be TOO forceful with your doctor. That can be just as bad as not being forceful enough. Be more pitiful. LOL I'm sorry but sometimes to get them to understand, you have to be pitiful and I hate to say that because it shouldn't that way. I don't really mean acting, but just be honest and tell him you can't live this way. If he comes up with a drug that is non-narcotic that works,well that's all the better,right? But so many times doctors undertreat pain and I think you are being undertreated. Just remember to never ask for a narcotic by name. They hate it when you've done research and are smart.I don't know why and it's not all of them. My new doctor is OK with intelligence though. I write down everything I want to talk to him about on my computer,and if we don't get to everything because HE'S too busy, I let him keep the notes to read later.I've got a copy at home on my computer anyway! I always keep notes of any questions,suggestions,and so on. Just don't put anything in your notes that you don't want your doc to see.Like: "I don't know if he knows what he's doing?" LOL Good Luck!
Rick
I don't wish chronic pain on anyone, but I do think the doctors need a little insight to realize that some people DO hurt all the time, sometimes for no reason (or no reason they can determine).
Thanks again, James
Just wanted to update. I'm seeing a pain management doctor now, and he is awesome. Since I don't have insurance, he went over the different options, but told me he's going to wait until I can afford the different treatments. He put me on a couple of anti-depressants (I guess they can help pain too) and a month supply of percocet, so at least he's not scared of prescribing pain meds until the cause is figured out.
Thanks for the support,
James
Thanks!!!!! This is GREAT!!! To hear from other Crohn's suffering folks that CAN"T get help for their pain from their doctors. I have requested to go to a pain clinic & my primary still hasn't set it up for me!!! Maybe b/c she doesn't think that I need the help with my EVERYDAY pain. She refuses to write me a presription for any pain medicine. Other wise I wouldn't have to ask to see yet another doctor for pain management. She'll give me Tramadol, but that's it.....and what's the point in taking something that doesn't work for my pain!!!! I'm just like you and have to go to the ER at least twice a month to get temporary pain relief. It shouldn't be that way!!!!! I should be able to communicate to my doctor that I'm in pain & she should do something to help me!!! I sometimes feel like these doctors don't take us seriously about it. She's been my doctor for a long time & I don't want to have to switch doctors b/c of this but that's what I may have to end up doing. Also Crohn's disease is not just a physical illness, but it has certainly taken it's toll on me emotionally. My family & friends have had to suffer as well. I have found myself having social anxiety b/c I have to ALWAYS know where the bathrooms are & yeah I've had a few accidents. That is totally embarrasing!!!!! We've gone from a two income household down to one over all of this and we stand to loose everything unless our "wonderful" government decides to stamp approved on my disability claim soon. This has also affected my marriage in a BIG way. He can't stand to see me in pain and know that there's nothing he can do & every doctor I go to just gives me more pills to take. I'm only 28yrs old & I'm going through all of this and taking more meds than my grandmother did. I also have osteoporosis & osteoarthritis already. This disease has taken over my life!!! I am only asking for some pain relief so that I can have "some" quality of life back. If anyone has any ideas about what I should do....I'm all ears!!!!! Thanks Everyone!!!! Talisa
Goodluck to you!
Karen
I started out with Ulcerative Colitis in summer of 1978 , from there in 1979 is progressed on to full blown Crohns Disease. I was a Paramedic/Deputy Sheiff, firefighter. I was forced into retirement,you know when you have a severe bout 20-30 bloody bowel movements a day, you become enemic lose 30-40 pounds you don't want to lose this way. listen I have been on Oxycontin,MS Contin, several other shedule two narcotics, you need a good doctor your GI doctor is not going to write you any narcotics, he worried about you obstructing again, i know the pain is terrible, get a new GP and get a new GI doctor then try to find a good pain doctor, i know there hard to find but your pain is real, i don't want you to suffer the way i have, look on living with chronic pain on the pain site your on now.
Let me know what happens Greg Armstrong Emt -P Emt-A Ems Inst Ret
I have had full blown Crohns disease since 1979 i was a Paramedic,Deputy Sheriff,Fire fighter for several years i had to retire in 2000 due to health problems rheumatoid arthritis, imflamatory arthritis, i had my leg amputated because of a big screw-up by a doctor spent over 400 days in the hospital. had a severe staff infection which a doctor failed to treat me. I have severe pain all my life your sons pain is very real it needs to be treated properly he has no quality of life , he needs to be treated right,he needs pain medication, his GI doctor is worried he will perforate, get a new general practioner, as well as a well versed pain doctor he needs HELP' Let me know if I can help you, GOOD LUCK.
Greg Armstrong Emt-P/Emt-A/Ems Inst Ret
What I would recommend to get your quality of life returned would be get some large info on the disease as you will be living with it the rest of your life, You have to work with your GI and get your disease under control before it begins to control you.
For the first 17 years of my disease, I did not comply with doc orders, the diet, the bloodwork, follow-up appts, I had went years with out a GI doctor and relied solely on ER treatment, take it from someone who knows this is not an option you want to continue.
check your diet and make sure your not eating any no no foods or drinking alot of carbonated beverages. I know that the noratriptilyne and anatriptile work fabulous for the pain of this disease but I had to stop it because of allergic reaction. Many GI's will may prescribe this depending on your doctor. Also which noone told me after bowel resections (because I did not follow up with a GI) your body starts having malabsorption with all three of these disease which in lay terms means your B-12, vitD, and potassium levels will need to monitored at all times. If GI does not ask about this or assumes yours have bben checked maybe you could ask and let him or her know were you are at as a patient. each one is simple to check with blood work, if you are or become deficient in any of these areas your 50-60% of your pain and belly hurt is coming from this, its like running a car while it is missing three of its fluids.... I am currently on B-12 injections every four weeks at my primary and they also have nose spray but I did not like it. I take potassium every day, defiency cause mood disorders and leg pain, cramping etc... vitamin D is what keeps calcium in your body and keeps your bones from crumbling. Thes are all vitmain supplemants that have given me my life back, as for abdominal pain and swelling, looking like I was 6 months pregnant, a probiotic at Walgreens is what my GI prescribed for that it is called ALIGN probiotic, I tried generic because it costs approx 30 dollars a month but it did not work and GI said the others are not developed the same.within 3 days it had taken away all swelling, intestinal gas, and PAIN, I am also on remicade, if your GI recommends this I hope it works for you, it has been godsend for me I hav been in remission for 2 years now.
Not taking care of the disease is what led me here, B-12 defiency gav me perm damag to spinal chord and vitamin def gave me DDD in Cerv and Lumb
This is Gail and I'm truly hoping to be helpful in telling you that it might help to watch both the dates that posts were first made which are right at the top under the "Subject" line AND check the person's profile by clicking on their username if the post is kind of "old" so that you won't waste your time making a reply to someone who no longer is here. When I was "new" here I finally noticed that I was replying to some people who would never be back and just wasting my time and wanted to keep you from wasting yours. However, your thoughts and information will always have a chance to help someone else, so I don't mean to be rude at all but just helpful. This is just a head's up in case you had not known that yet. Thanks for how willing you are to help others!
Take care! gail
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