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    Children calling step dad "dad"
    iceechic posted:
    I wanted to know what you guys think about my situation. My children ( 11yr old son, 7 yr old daughter) from a previous marriage, have started calling there step dad "Dad". I am 18 weeks pregnant, and it was shortly after we told the kids that I was pregnant (they were estatic) they out of the blue started calling him dad, he is fine with it. But since my childrens biological fathers is still in their life, I felt it necessary, to explain to them that they didnt have to call my husband dad, but if they wanted to that it was fine.
    Well my lil girl was with her dad when I recieved a call from him, (note he is and was always very controlling) he was yelling at me, saying I was filling her head with stuff and that my husband was not her dad, and that he better never hear her say that again, ect.
    Also note that she has told me that when she is at his house and she makes us a picture and he sees it is for us that he sends her to her room and throws her picture away.
    I dont know what to say to her, because I never bad mouth the kids dads (in front or around the kids). Me and my husband have only been married for a year.
    Please if anyone has any suggestions...

    Thanks in advance

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