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My Bf and my Son....
jesslovesmagicandmichael posted:
ok my bf tells me im a bad mother because I dont spank my son... but I wasnt raised like that so I dont think Im wrong... (My sons father also isnt around)... and me and my bf are constantly fighting over whose right and if my son is out of controll... som advice please!!!
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momuv4girls responded:
A good mother, is one that protects her child - - this boyfriend doesn't sound like a keeper in my book......unless he's willing to learn how to effectively discipline without hitting/spanking.

Spanking is NOT ok.

If your son has behavioral issues, a parenting class would be super helpful - your boyfriend should go with you if he loves your son and wants to be a positive influence in his life.

Take care,
candy352 responded:
I don't think a parent's style of teaching makes them a bad or good parent. It's a personal choice. I agree with PP that a parenting class is a good idea. It can help you with any behavioral issues your son may have.
ami_nix responded:
First of all, you are NOT a bad mother. Perhaps you should let your boyfriend read Spanking should never be your go-to punishment!

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