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Found 14 yo daughter and boyfriend having sex in her room
marian58 posted:
I need some advice on how to handle walking in on my daughter and boyfriend having sex, both are 14yo. Everyone was supposed to be out of the house and they snuck back in. He used a condom, I saw that. I am so very upset and am not sure how to handle this situation. Any advice would be appreciated.
sluggo45692 responded:
Talk to your daughter (after you go have a blow up somewhere else) about your expectations of her and her behavior. Ask her what her goals in life are and then crush them with a baby. You and I were both 14. We know what teens will do. Then talk to your daughter's bf and parents. Explain to them your expectations of the boy's behavior and the conquinces (I know it's not spelled right) of these actions. I'm sure they are not ready to be grandparents and neither are you. Then get her a home pregnacy test and have her take it. Explain to her what will happen if she becomes pregnant.I'm sure a month of grounding and extremely supervised "dates" will help curb some of the urges. If this doesn't help try a project of caring for a baby for a weekend. All weekend with no help. P.S. Don't forget about the STD talk and explain in detail how it could even kill them.
marian58 replied to sluggo45692's response:
Thanks for your advice! Have done all of the above plus had lab work for STDS.

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