WWilson89 ( Wanda),
I'm a big time lurker since I was pregnant with DD, so I;'ve seen planty of posts by you on the old 3rd trimester boardsa nd the aprneting boards. My DD was born just after your DS- 12/23/08.
I mostly lurk because I must be the most disorganized person in the world but I never have time to post- but I am trying harder! I will have pictrues of my DC up this weekend. I have to upload my camera first and my sister is yelling at me to do it to send her pictures from her weekend with them, and her nagging always motivates me.
I agree about most of the biracial families I've seen on WEBMD not having a black woman- so I'll share my experiences- but I have to warn everyone I am not remotely PC- but I love/hate everyone equally. I hate truly racist, prejudiced or stupid people & policies but have laughed at (or told) a totally inapproropriate joke). I do wonder how my general 'who cares' attitude will affect my chilren since they are biracial and I am not-though my family tree is as full of nonblacks as a lot of black americans. People always ask my if I am Spanish. I grew up in DC in the 70s and 80s- then it was the blackest place in America.
I live in NYC so there is every possible combination of bi-racial families- though we still get tons of looks! And if I wasn't there, people would usually not think my DC are black. MY DH and I notice that there seem to be more black women with men of other races- we call the days when we notice a lot of these couples- 'Walk your black Woman day!'
-Vickie