Skip to content
My WebMD Sign In, Sign Up

Announcements

The Pet Health Community and Pet Health Center are NOT substitutes for a vet visit. Contact a vet in an emergency! | Dog Conditions A-Z | Dog Symptoms A-Z | Cat Conditions A-Z | Cat Symptoms A-Z

Remember Your Beloved Pet
Very aggresive kitten, help!!
avatar
ajohnson08099 posted:
We got a bobbed-tail kitten (grey tabby) from a friend. At the time she was about 5 weeks, and she is about 12-13 weeks now. Even when she was with her mother, my Fiance said she was very "fiesty"... But pretty much from the moment we brought her home she has been one big ball of trouble!! I know a lot of this is playing, because she doesn't hiss or anything.. But she hurts! She is Constantly attacking us when we walk by, biting, scratching, everything! You almost Can't pet her, because she won't stop biting. Actually you can't pet her at all really, all she wants to do is bite you (she's not trying to get away, because she jump back and forth and attack) She bites a lot more than she scratches (which is weird for me in a cat). I have found no way to calm her down. When we first got her I could wrap her body in a blanket and she'd be calm for about 5 minutes and then start it all over again. Now she is too active for that.

At first she didn't have any playmates, but now we have an inside chihuaha mix (about 8 years old) that is inside with her.. They don't so much play as that cat Terrorizes the chihuahua. Which the dog isn't as agile as she once was, so I don't know if its good to have them together. Mostly the dog just runs away, but I don't want the cat to hurt her. (The dog is or brother and sister-in-laws dog, keeping her because they moved into a no pet appartment)

How do I get her to CALM DOWN??? I don't want to have to get rid of her, she has a big personality and I do like her.. I just don't know how much more I can take of this!

She has ample space to play in.

A big scratching post.

We have treats (that she won't eat)

Plenty of food

Plenty of attention
Reply
 
avatar
Home2strays responded:
Its sounds like normal behavior, shes like a 2-3 yr old child going through their biting stage. Honestly Ive never found anything that works with my fosters. Once they get about 6-7 months old it stops. If she gets plenty of play, maybe try adding a laser pointer to get her running around more. They do make medicines to calm down animals but in a baby exhibiting normal behaviors I think it would not be so good to give those to her. If you can just wait a little while I think she'll calm down.
 
avatar
ajohnson08099 replied to Home2strays's response:
Ok thank you! No, I would never give an unnecissary drug to any of my animals. I figured at least some of it was normal behavoir, just didn't know since it started to moment we brought her home at 5 weeks. I will definately be waiting it.. The laser pointer sounds like a great idea! Had thought about it a little a while ago, but had kind of forgot about it.

I guess I just have forgotten how kittens can be.. Any other time I had kittens, there was always more than 3 so I guess they occupied each other.
 
avatar
srstephanie replied to ajohnson08099's response:
Hi ajohnson08099,

I think the foundation of your problem was taking the kitten away from her mother and siblings at 5 weeks of age ... which is too young. I'm just a simple cat owner but have some friends that breed pedigree cats. They never let their kittens go to a new home prior to 12 weeks ... and most wait until at least 16 weeks (give the last kitten series vaccination at 16 weeks, then wait 7-10 days before the kitten goes to a new home). My current kitten (now 2 yrs old) was 22.5 weeks old when I got her.

Those first few months are very important for a kitten to learn social skills. One of the important lessons is how to play and that biting hurts. Normally, kittens will play with their siblings and they will teach each other when to stop and when biting hurts. But a kitten that goes to a new home at 5 weeks hasn't had the chance to learn the lessons from its siblings and mother about biting and rough playing. It will be more difficult for you to teach her now.

Having the dog as a playmate isn't likely to help since she needed to learn the lessons from other cats. Cats still have a lot of wild instincts, and dogs are a natural predator. Cats and dogs can often become friends ... but a cat's natural instinct is to either hide or attack a dog as a potential predator that might hurt the cat.

I think most cats will get better about biting as they get older. It is always important not to play with the kitten using your hands as a toy. If she wants to bite something in play, give her a toy that she can chew on (be sure there are no small parts that she can chew off and eat ... which could cause a life threatening intestinal blockage). I've heard a number of suggestions on how to handle it. Some suggest, if the kitten bites your hand, not to pull your hand away quickly (which encourages the biting) but to hold it still and calmly put the kitten down. Others suggest saying a loud "ouch" to try to get the kitten to understand that it hurts (though that doesn't always work). Many suggest doing a "time out" ... when the kitten starts biting/scratching, set her down and pay no attention to her for a couple minutes ... or, if that doesn't work, put her in the bathroom for 5-10 minutes to calm down. The idea is to not reinforce the bad behavior and for the kitten to learn that if she bites then she won't get the attention she wants.

I think that once a kitten starts biting at a young age without learning about rough play from siblings or its mother, it can be a real challenge to stop the habit. But it is important never to get angry with her or use any force. She won't understand and she may just bite more. Cats aren't dogs and don't understand forceful discipline. Always be gentle and loving with her and try to redirect her behavior to a toy, or ignore her for a couple minutes. Hopefully she will grow out of it.

I agree with not using drugs. However, you could try getting some Feliway (it comes as a spray or a plug-in diffuser ... the diffuser may be better). Feliway isn't a drug, but rather simulates cat pheromones ... that helps the cat to relax. Many vets and specialists recommend Feliway when cats are stressed and/or have behavioral issues. You can check with your vet about it. It isn't a drug and to my knowledge has no negative side effects.

Good luck.

Stephanie in Montreal


Featuring Experts from AMERICAN VETERINARY MEDICAL ASSOCIATION

Sandy Willis, DVM, DACVIM, is a small animal internal medicine consultant for Phoenix Central Laboratory, an independent veterinary diagnostic laborat...More

Helpful Tips

Helping Hospice Patients Keep Their PetsExpert
Pets are an extremely important part of our lives. And this is especially true when we are at the end of our days. What could be more ... More
Was this Helpful?
34 of 46 found this helpful

Report Problems to the
Food and Drug Administration

FDAYou are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit the FDA MedWatch website or call 1-800-FDA-1088.

Learn more about the AVMA

WebMD Special Sections