I'm suddenly nervous about my C-section on Tuesday. You'd think since I've been through this before that it'd be no problem, but the first one was an unplanned C-section. Now this is scheduled, and I'm growing more and more anxious as the hours pass. I don't know how I'm going to do this, how I'm going to heal and be a mother to a newborn AND a toddler. I know this is nothing new to history, but it's new to mine and I'm slightly panicking. I'm very worried about my lil man and not seeing him while I'm in the hospital. This baby was such a surprise and a blessing that my heart swells, but I'm so afraid that I won't know how to a be mother to two, as opposed to one.
I just needed to vent. I haven't slept properly in days and I fear that it will continue that way.
You'll be fine. I had a semi-unscheduled c-section in 2007 (it was scheduled for Sept 5 but DS decided he didn't want to wait so my c-section ended up being on Sept 3). I had a scheduled c-section in 2009. I had a two year old and a newborn. I was home on manternity leave for four months. I had minor complications but everything was fine after about a month. You can do it. If you need help, ask. Don't just assume your SO will know you need help.
Today's the day! I woke up with the blues though, I don't know why. I think maybe it's because I won't be pregnant after this? I've held this baby in my body for 39 weeks and now the end is actually in sight. I know it'll feel good to hold him, but I'm nervous and afraid all of a sudden. I know I'll be ok, I just have to breathe through it. I'll be okay. I'll be okay.
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