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I overpacked when I had DS last year, so this year I'm keeping it light. A toiletries bag, black undies & black pj pants for after all the initial "checking you out down there" business is done, nursing bras and tank tops, fuzzy socks with grippy bottoms (they double as slippers!), 2 going-home outfits for baby (one NB size, one 3-month size), camera, cell phone, and laptop in bag w/chargers, 2 outfits for DH and his shaving kit. Also a pillow, boppy, and the baby's car seat.
It's easiest for me to stay in the hospital-provided gowns for the first day due to all the checking that the nurses do (plus I don't feel bad if I bleed on them) and the LC's that come in and whip your boobs out, LOL. It's easiest to keep baby in the white long sleeve side-fasten shirts they provide, and they provide all the diapers, wipes, and swaddling blankets at my hossy. They also provide LOTS pads and disposable undies for me, so that's nice.
I also recommend leaving extra space in the bag you're bringing, or bringing another smaller bag for all the loot they give you. I mean, they're charging you for EVERYTHING, so you might as well take it with you when you go. Snap up all the wipes, diapers, baby blankies, and pads you can. Plus your big water cup, squeezie bottle for *ahem* post-baby-sensitive-area cleaning, and whatever else they toss your way.
Julie (27), DF (34). Our little boy is due 4/18/11!