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Very very young and pregnet (my friend not me)
lifeisbad posted:
My friend is 14 years old and had intercourse with his girlfriend with a condom. He had a condom and pulled out to jizz but they took a shower together after and he put it in for 10 seconds but didnt ejaculate. His girlfriend told him 2 months later that she is probably pregnet. My friend has alot going on in his life right now. He used to be bad but he changed. His parents getting a divorce and he smoked marijuana and drank to feel good. He stopped all that and changed his whole life. His girlfriend can't tell her mom because she will send her away for shure and my friend will flip out. They haven't tooken a test yet but He is shure that she is pregnet. They want an abortion and aren't having second thaughts. I know it's killing a babe but if they had it his life would be terrible. Please don't message me telling me to change their minds because they are shure about this. How can they stop pregnancy without pills or surgey. Please tell anyway no matter what because if they can't get rid of it they are going to make dumb choices. Please anyway possible
2 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:Very very young and pregnet (my friend not me)My friend is 14 years old and had intercourse with his girlfriend with a condom. He had a condom and pulled out to jizz but they took a shower together after and he put it in for 10 seconds but didnt ejaculate. His girlfriend told him 2 months later that she is probably pregnet. My friend has alot going on in his life right now. He used to be bad but he changed. His parents getting a divorce and he smoked marijuana and drank to feel good. He stopped all that and changed his whole life. His girlfriend can't tell her mom because she will send her away for shure and my friend will flip out. They haven't tooken a test yet but He is shure that she is pregnet. They want an abortion and aren't having second thaughts. I know it's killing a babe but if they had it his life would be terrible. Please don't message me telling me to change their minds because they are shure about this. How can they stop pregnancy without pills or surgey. Please tell anyway no matter what because if they can't get rid of it they are going to make dumb choices. Please anyway possible
fiannakyn responded:
If she is 2 months along, there is NO way to force an abortion/misscarriage without a) medical abortion or b) risking the mother's life. At this point in the pregnancy, the morning after pill or other medication will not work. Their options are pretty much limited. Yes there are posions that can cause misscarrage, but they also can cause the mother's death as well, and more often. a surgical abortion is the only "safe" way ("safe" as any surgery)
If they are sure of this, I would say have your friend and his girlfriend go to a planned parenthood clinic to get a test done and talk to a conseler about their options.
If she is also 14, her mother CANT kick her out without facing child abuse charges.
I know they arn't thinking of adoption- but make sure they know there are adoptive parents that would help support her even if her mother turns her back on her.
If she's just baseing this on the fact she's missed her period, it could be that she's not actualy pregnant but the stress of her life, and the fact she's so young, can cause missed periods all the time. She REALLLLY needs to get a test done before they make stupid choices. You can also buy pregnancy tests at Dollar Tree and Dollar General for $1 each. They are pretty reliable.
If they are sure of this, I would say have your friend and his girlfriend go to a planned parenthood clinic to get a test done and talk to a conseler about their options.
If she is also 14, her mother CANT kick her out without facing child abuse charges.
I know they arn't thinking of adoption- but make sure they know there are adoptive parents that would help support her even if her mother turns her back on her.
If she's just baseing this on the fact she's missed her period, it could be that she's not actualy pregnant but the stress of her life, and the fact she's so young, can cause missed periods all the time. She REALLLLY needs to get a test done before they make stupid choices. You can also buy pregnancy tests at Dollar Tree and Dollar General for $1 each. They are pretty reliable.
Report This| Share this:Very very young and pregnet (my friend not me)If she is 2 months along, there is NO way to force an abortion/misscarriage without a) medical abortion or b) risking the mother's life. At this point in the pregnancy, the morning after pill or other medication will not work. Their options are pretty much limited. Yes there are posions that can cause misscarrage, but they also can cause the mother's death as well, and more often. a surgical abortion is the only "safe" way ("safe" as any surgery)<br /> <br />If they are sure of this, I would say have your friend and his girlfriend go to a planned parenthood clinic to get a test done and talk to a conseler about their options. <br /> <br />If she is also 14, her mother CANT kick her out without facing child abuse charges. <br />I know they arn't thinking of adoption- but make sure they know there are adoptive parents that would help support her even if her mother turns her back on her.<br /> <br /> <br />If she's just baseing this on the fact she's missed her period, it could be that she's not actualy pregnant but the stress of her life, and the fact she's so young, can cause missed periods all the time. She REALLLLY needs to get a test done before they make stupid choices. You can also buy pregnancy tests at Dollar Tree and Dollar General for $1 each. They are pretty reliable.
plays_with_shadows responded:
Look, she needs to do a test before they jump to any conclusions. By what you've said the chance of pregnancy is quite slim. And she cant force herself to miscarry without putting her life at risk as well. And since you guy's are 14-15, do you even know the different types of abortion, the risks, and do they actually know that they are killing a baby? I know you have no say in what they chose if she is pregnant, just be sure that if she does get an abortion, that she really needs to think about it and know that it could risk her to become infertile. Just let them be sure of the risks.
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Report This| Share this:Very very young and pregnet (my friend not me)Look, she needs to do a test before they jump to any conclusions. By what you've said the chance of pregnancy is quite slim. And she cant force herself to miscarry without putting her life at risk as well. And since you guy's are 14-15, do you even know the different types of abortion, the risks, and do they actually know that they are killing a baby? I know you have no say in what they chose if she is pregnant, just be sure that if she does get an abortion, that she really needs to think about it and know that it could risk her to become infertile. Just let them be sure of the risks.<br /><br />Hope that helped
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