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mbenz1313 posted:
to all of those teen moms or pregnant teens you are amazing! I believe that we as a generation of young moms can prove everyone wrong & do what is right with out children to ensure a better future!! All of the stress & problems get better. Please do whats best for your child for their safety and well being im tired of reading these horrible stories of young parents doing horrible things. lets make a difference.
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Bulley1030 responded:
Or a great idea is to be abstinent that always works. That makes the possibility of having children completely obsolete.
 
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newstudent2011 responded:
Wow.. so, let me get this straight- your advise is for teen moms and pregnant teens to hop in a time machine, go back to the time right before they got pregnant, and decide not to have sex this time? I mean, just, wow! What great advice! Too bad it's impossible. All you guys that prove everyone wrong and rock at being parents, good for you! Tell those people who want to judge you and act like they are better than you that you don't care what they think!
~Always looking to learn, knowledge is power~
 
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Bulley1030 replied to newstudent2011's response:
Ever see teen mom? or 16 and pregnant? The whole show one girl regrets her decisions. What I said is an option for those thatdont have regrets YET.
 
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newstudent2011 responded:
And you expect to find them on a pregnant teens and teen moms site? Really? And no, can't say that I've ever watched those shows. I don't really watch alot of TV, especially not reality tv. I really can't see what upsets you so badly about someone asking girls who have already gotten pregnant to do what's best for their baby and offering them encouragement. Seriously, considering that young girls aren't going to be on a teen pregnancy/ teen mom website unless they're pregnant or moms- your advise is just mean!
~Always looking to learn, knowledge is power~
 
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Bulley1030 replied to newstudent2011's response:
not all girls coming to this site are pregnant. they fear they are and my advice helps THOSE girls. before it's tillage and they can't have a great teenage life free from adult stresses. I'm not mean. I'm a very nice person so please stop attacking my advice. I'm offering the girls on here before it's to late a chance to realize what could happen. and what can help avoid this nation wide issue. if your upset talk to the groups that are working to combat teen pregnancy. the city I live in and the hospital I work at have the highest rates. there are groups that work her to support and educate abstinence. I und you feel strongly but so do I. so enough with the malicious bitterness and realize that I as you amonly trying to help.
 
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vayne replied to Bulley1030's response:
im a teen mom a single one at that i have a two year old and a four month old Had my first at 18 im now 21 this is the hardest thing i have ever had to do, but i wouldnt change it. I work two jobs go to school and raise my kids i dont abuse them or treat them poor and they have everything they need or want i have my own house and my own car WITH NO HELP! so im proof that teen moms can do it so to everyone who says other wise please keep your opinions to yourself stop sterotyping because there is great teen moms out there and we dont need to be told we are young or dumb for our choices
 
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MonicaLynn87 replied to vayne's response:
I don't think she was trying to discourage anyone from doing what's best for their kids. I think she was just trying to say, try not to get pregnant in the first place. Lol. I had my son in my senior year, had to go back to high school for a few months the next year but i did it. I am 25 now, just got my driver's license and a car and I have 2 boys, ages 6 and 2. The 2 year old is actually my nephew that i took custody of as a baby because my sister is a drug addict. I have had the same job for the past 5 years, had my apt. for the past 3 and just got my car a month ago. All with no help. I am really proud of myself, BUT I must say, I DO wish I would have waited. Definitely wouldn't trade my kids for the world, but if i could go back in time, i would wait another 5 years or so to have kids. It would have made life SO much easier. I think what Bulley1030 was trying to say was if you are a teen and you are not pregnant yet, just don't get pregnant. Because you don't have to struggle if you just make the right choices. Yes, we can make it work as teen moms even though it's a struggle because we love our kids. But it's much easier and better for your kids to make it work as adult moms that already finished school and established their career.


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