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    relationships issues forgiveness and forgetting
    An_252323 posted:
    Okay here's the issue I've been with my boyfriend for going on 6years a few months ago we were really bumping heads about money he was unemployed for a year maybe longer so money was the argument I was doing everything he said he was looking everywhere for a job but I was seeing it so I told him to leave get his self together and come back correct he did so in the mist of all of that I started talking to another guy we were spending a lot of time together long story short me and my boyfriend got back together he came back home an that same night I found condoms in his pocket I instantly got mad because why do you have condoms and we don't use them so he says it because he knew I was talking to someone else which sounded like crap but I kicked him out again an this time I was really mean an serious I through his cloth out which was wrong of me and I told him to change his address and everything else so I guess he really thought it was over because if I was him it would of thought the same but anyways he came back we worked it out I went to the doctors to get a regular check up an a week later she calls me back and tells me I have an std I quickly woke him up an asked his what was going on at first he denied it then later that day he finalltfinally came clean an told me he had unpertected sex twice with someone else I was so mad and up set but I chose to forgive him but now I'm haveing a hard time forgetting about it I know it takes time but sometimes I look at him like a disease sometimes I don't wanna talk to hin sometimes I get sick thinkkng about it I don't even want him touching me sometimes I don't how to handle this I feel like crying sometimes I just don't know I need advice please

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