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What are your plans for Valentines day???
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dfromspencer posted:
Hi everyone!


I thought this might be a nice topic to comment on? Everyone that has a significant other, usually has plans for romance that day, or night? (He he he) So, if its not too much trouble, could you tell the rest of us what you plan for your S. O. ???


I myself, will be alone again this year. Lately, I have asked 16 ladies to go out with me, and each one had an excuse!!! One (1) of them, was married, she got a pass, but the rest? No excuse!


If I did have one, I would do so many things to make her happy! Cook her favorite meal, place it on a candlelit table, her Valentines card lying beside her plate, a long stem red rose sitting on top of it. I would meet her at the door, sans clothes, just a big red sash that says "I am your Valentine, take me and do what you wish with me" If I'm lucky, I will get to come to dinner from the bedroom? I would escort her into the dinning room, sit her at the table, and place a scrumptious dinner, prepared to perfection, on her plate. After dinner, I would escort her into the living room, turn on the blue ray, and watch the latest date movie while cuddled tightly on the couch! Of course I would have to be behind her, so I could nibble on her ear, and her neck, too?! Maybe even her shoulder, arm, wrist, fingers??? With any luck, we will not finish watching the love story, we will be making our own?!


Well, that's just for Valentines night, we still have the rest of the weekend to finish in the bedroom!


So, that's my romantic evening/weekend? Whats yours???


Thanks guys, in advance!!!


Dennis
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
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dem03 responded:
when day you will find your lady,love
 
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dfromspencer replied to dem03's response:
Why, thank you, Dem!! I believe that, myself!!!


She is out there, I just have to find her!!!


Thanks again, Dem, have a good day!!!
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
 
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bigred53 replied to dfromspencer's response:
Wow Dennis!! Can I come over to your house? I would recriprocate except for the cooking - maybe. BTW my favorite bird is the swallow.

Michelle
 
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tlkittycat1968 responded:
Well, hubby is out-of-town until at least Thursday, possibly Friday. We were talking about going out to dinner but I said everyone will be doing that and everyplace will be busy. We might do dinner Saturday night.

I know I'm getting something delivered to me at work Friday but I don't know what.
 
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rohvannyn replied to tlkittycat1968's response:
My spouse doesn't celebrate that holiday so I'm just going to try to be extra nice to her. Maybe buy her a rose anyway, just because. Or maybe buy her a beautiful red long stemmed rose and some nice dark chocolate the day AFTER, to let her know that I am doing it because I love her, not because of the holiday.
Roh

'Your focus determines your reality.' --QGJ
 
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smiley2009 responded:
That sounds truly romantic Dennis! My husband used to be that way when we first met. He would create fancy, artistic meals for me. This V-Day will be completely different unfortunately. I don't even want a gift from him. In the past, I only wanted his love and never focused on the gifts. If he spent too much money, I would get mad. I always told him to be creative and give me something from the heart.
Now, he can not give from his heart for he shared it with someone else. If he wants to celebrate this day, he can share his love with the kids.

Love comes in different forms, so no matter what you are loved Dennis! Happy V-Day everyone! Share the love, turn someone's frown into a smile
 
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dfromspencer replied to bigred53's response:
Hi Big Red,


Sure, come on over!!! You get two roses!!!


And I do like your choice of birds, yes I do!!! LOL!!!


Happy V-day to you, Michelle!!!


D.
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
 
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dfromspencer replied to tlkittycat1968's response:
Hi Cat,


Well, look on the bright side, he WILL be there for the day itself, right?! Surprised on Friday, eh??? Hmm, now I wonder what that might be??? What ever it is, I am sure you are gonna love it!!!


Enjoy the weekend with the hubby, happy V-day!!!


D.
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
 
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dfromspencer replied to rohvannyn's response:
Hi Roh,


Now that, is a bummer!!! She doesn't celebrate the V-day? Ahh, she is missing out! That is a day set aside to celebrate one's love for the other, and vice versa!!! It sounds as if she has been broken inside? Poor thing, give her our best wishes!


You have a happy V-day Roh, you deserve it as much, if not more, than anyone else!!! HAPPY V-DAY, ROH & S.O.!!!


D.
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
 
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dfromspencer replied to smiley2009's response:
Hi Smiley,


I have always been a romantic at heart, just more so after the ex-wife! It took a couple more long term disasters for me to learn my lesson. A lady needs romance, romance, romance!!! And after getting burned for that a couple times, I learned where the too much line was! LOL!!! Yes, believe it or not, some ladies think its over the top to make them romantic dinners during the work week, just because I wanted to? Or to spend five dollars buying them flowers, when there was no reason for it? Well, I'm sorry, but that is how I am, and if they can't handle it, they can go find someone who just sits there like a blob, for all I care!!! I like being romantic!!! Shoot me!


Thank you Smiley, I know exactly what you mean, and I send that love right back atcha!!! Maybe that is the only way I will ever get it again? But, I sure do appreciate it!!!


Smiley, you still love this man, even if you won't admit it to yourself? The rest of us see it. If you didn't, you wouldn't have come here at all? It may be buried at the moment, but it is still there, and one day, you two will be fine!!! It will just take time, and you guys are still young!!! You are giving him a chance, now, give yourself one, too!!!


I don't believe your hubby actually did the deed with her, but as you said, he did with his heart. Our hearts are very big, and we can surly love a whole bunch of people all at once, right? Think of family, friends?? Don't you think hubby can still be in love with you? Surly he can, and is, or he wouldn't be there with you?


It is up to you when to give your love back to him!!! Just don't wait too long, idle love can grow cold!!!


I wish you a happy V-day, even tho you two may spend it apart?!!! I'm cheering you guys on!!!


D.
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!
 
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bigred53 replied to dfromspencer's response:
Dennis, you are such a sweetheart!! I really do wish I could visit with you in person.

We all need romance! We all need to know that we are loved and appreciated by our partners - especially those 'for no apparent reason' times. The 'just because I want to do this for you' times.

Send/give me flowers now not at my funeral!!

I truly wish that you find a special someone to shower all that romance you have inside you on. And I hope that when you do find her that she gives it right back!!!

Happy V-day to you too!!

Michelle
 
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smiley2009 replied to dfromspencer's response:
You are right Dennis, I do still love him and I try to withhold it in order for him to realize what he's done to me. When he holds me in his arms, I can't resist hugging him back. Maybe one day he will love me as much as I love him? The only true love on this earth is God's love. His love is unconditional and wipes away every tear I cry. I hope everyone finds this kind of love one day.
This is what keeps me strong during this time.
Dennis, your heart is so big and I know that you will find true love one day. Sometimes when you least expect it, it will happen!! Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
 
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rohvannyn replied to dfromspencer's response:
She doesn't celebrate the day because she knows the true history of "St Valentine," doesn't appreciate that part of it, and also doesn't feel the need to celebrate a holiday largely invented by the candy and card companies. But she did something really sweet yesterday. She gave me the first paper crane that she managed to fold entirely with her left hand. That was a gift with tremendous meaning and sentimentality to both of us. I was touched.
Roh

'Your focus determines your reality.' --QGJ
 
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dfromspencer replied to bigred53's response:
Hi again, Michelle,


You know, I thought I did find that love, one day? Only to find out she was married! When I first laid eyes on her, well, its hard to explain all that? Lets just say I lost my heart completely to her!


Thank you, I hope to find someone, anyone I can even kinda love? I don't know as weather you can find true love twice in a lifetime, and mine is very short?! So, if I can find someone that I can love in any way, I should count my blessings, right??? I know I will never be blown away like that, ever again!!! Sad, really!!!


Well, thanks again, and you come on over and see me, we'll cook something up!!!


Happy V-Day!!!


D.
LIVE LONG, LOVE WELL!!!


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