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Dating for 11 years
An_246214 posted:
I've been dating the same guy for 11 years and I remember the lust and desire for sex but now it seems like a chore. He gets mad or acts like a baby if he doesn't get his sex and I wonder is this normal or am I the problem?
3point14 responded:
It sounds like he's the problem if he's acting like a spoiled baby when he doesn't get sex when he wants it.

Why does it seem like a chore? What does he do to turn you on? What would need to change for it to not feel like such a chore? Are you nice when you turn him down?

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