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oral sex problem with my woman

armari posted:

I have a problem with my fiance in oral sex, every time i try oral sex she gets too much excited and her body begin to show sudden surprising vibrations that makes her uncomfortable and with time passing, she is not willing to have oral sex despite i really enjoy it and want to do it in a way that she really enjoys it too. I try it in different ways but the outcome is same.

will you please help me with this?

2 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:oral sex problem with my womanI have a problem with my fiance in oral sex, every time i try oral sex she gets too much excited and her body begin to show sudden surprising vibrations that makes her uncomfortable and with time passing, she is not willing to have oral sex despite i really enjoy it and want to do it in a way that she really enjoys it too. I try it in different ways but the outcome is same. will you please help me with this?

Rohvannyn responded:

I get that too sometimes. It usually happens when the pressure or intensity are too strong. Try very light, non tickling pressure. A clitoris can be excruciatingly sensitive. Also try making sure she is relaxed. Perhaps some deepbreathing, or a massage, may help. Make sure to talk to her about it too.

Roh

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Report This| Share this:oral sex problem with my womanI get that too sometimes. It usually happens when the pressure or intensity are too strong. Try very light, non tickling pressure. A clitoris can be excruciatingly sensitive. Also try making sure she is relaxed. Perhaps some deepbreathing, or a massage, may help. Make sure to talk to her about it too.

Anon_51595 replied to Rohvannyn's response:

I would hope you have spent time kissing and cuddling first which should build arousal.

I agre, it sounds like she needs very light slow contact. Her reaction needs to guide you. When done right, she will want it every day. Guys tend to get too excited just to be there.

You have a naked woman in front of you, to be pleased and please you. Take instructions, and pay attention to what makes her feel best. Lay off the oral sex for awhile since she has asked you to. Have the rest of your sex connections improve. You might bring up oral sex again in a month or two.

Report This| Share this:oral sex problem with my womanI would hope you have spent time kissing and cuddling first which should build arousal. I agre, it sounds like she needs very light slow contact. Her reaction needs to guide you. When done right, she will want it every day. Guys tend to get too excited just to be there. You have a naked woman in front of you, to be pleased and please you. Take instructions, and pay attention to what makes her feel best. Lay off the oral sex for awhile since she has asked you to. Have the rest of your sex connections improve. You might bring up oral sex again in a month or two.

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