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dem24 posted:
why does it some one wanting tu hurt them self ,what has happened to people, talk to a doctor let them give you a pill,and in therapy , this is a load of CRAP, i am not perfect on these boards but i do try to help where i can, i hate my life, i hate being here, i have stayed if meds so when it is time it will be easier, i an being held hostage by my daughter s anger,View Thread
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Caprice_WebMD_Staff responded:
Dear Dem,

That's an interesting statement and it makes me wonder.... is it possible that your own anger is what is holding you hostage and keeping you stuck?

Keep reaching out, keep exploring answers for yourself.
We never touch people so lightly that we do not leave a trace. ~Peggy Tabor Millin
 
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dem24 replied to Caprice_WebMD_Staff's response:
Are you upset with me???? that was not a personal attack pm any one. i am scared, the thought of being alone is a horrible thought. my daughter and i get in to fist fights PLEASE PLEASE FOR GIVE ME
 
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dem24 replied to dem24's response:
losers dont get to live
 
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dem24 replied to dem24's response:
Are you upset with me???? that was not a personal attack pm any one. i am scared, the thought of being alone is a horrible thought. my daughter and i get in to fist fights PLEASE PLEASE FOR GIVE ME, tonight u will be going back on mt meds, i do not want to hurt anybody here especially you. i need to be here this is the only thing that has helped me stay ok my hang up is that i cant relate to people because of my anger and no trust i want to dieReport This tonight
 
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snowyowl33 replied to dem24's response:
Hi Dem,

I've been away for awhile, but just read your post. Dem, I know Caprice is not mad with you hon. She is encouraging you to continue moving forward with your journey to wellness by looking at things in your life in a different light and exploring new ideas that might help move you forward into a better place with more happiness.

Sometimes it can help a lot when others here give us their thoughts, advice and opinions, so we are able to look at things in a different light. This board is here to help many different ppl with many different issues and we try to stay as positive as we can using those tools.

Your message was a little bit difficult for me to understand, but I believe many of the people who are struggling here are working very hard to gain better health and happiness in their lives through therapy, medications, positive support. Are you now involved with some sort of therapy yourself, and on some medication too?? I think these are good places to start to understand your own issues too.

Coming here is a way of reaching out and knowing others are also on their journey to wellness, it is a place of support.
Can you tell us what your goals are so we can help you to reach them and hopefully become a bit more happy with your life?

I see you are having some problems with your daughter...may I ask how old she is and why you and she are fighting? Do you have other children, parents, friends near by? Dem, have you been dx with anything, ie BPD? I ask because sometimes knowing those things (if your comfortable in saying) help people to know in what way they might can support you.

Please try to be a little more positive towards yourself, by saying rather than "I hate" something, try to change that to "I may not be happy with (fill in the blank) but I will change the way I'm looking and thinking about it to a more positive outlook""..

Take care Dem... I'm off to work now...

Hugs
Snowy
 
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dem24 replied to snowyowl33's response:
i want to answer your post post snowy, right now but ir is hard through the tears it is kind hard, there iis so much i want to say to all of you, i am sorry that my posrs are hard to read i guess thats the confusion my head i love all of you
 
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Caprice_WebMD_Staff replied to snowyowl33's response:
Thank you, Kitty, you said it all so well.

(Dem, no, I'm not mad at you, not even a little bit.)

Please work towards taking physical anger out of the picture for both you and your daughter.
We never touch people so lightly that we do not leave a trace. ~Peggy Tabor Millin
 
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dem24 replied to Caprice_WebMD_Staff's response:
on thursday i am writing a post to answer somethings. one thing i learn to dig deep inside to understand how i feel and sometimes i do well with it . my daughter is home sick until then, some one told me that i was worth the effort, but i learned that they were just being kind, like i said before never knew that coming here was going to be important to me
 
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snowyowl33 replied to Caprice_WebMD_Staff's response:
Umm Caprice???? are you calling me Kitty??? cause if your are I'm gonna have to have a weee word with you.... I do not use a litter box...... bwahahahahaha...

Bad Snowy....
 
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snowyowl33 replied to dem24's response:
Hi Dem,

I look forward to your post Dem, and it's very good to see some clarity in this last post. Good for you... and YES you are worth it, so forget what that other person made you feel, and start again with us here...

This is a place that is important to all of us who come here for different reasons. I am proud of you for making the effort to dig deep down inside yourself to find understanding. It is the first step towards helping yourself. Good Girl! :)

Will look for your post on Thursday.. keep focused when you write it so we can be very sure to understand what you are saying in order to offer all the help we can. You are a wonderful person Dem...and let's get you started on helping yourself!..



Snowy
 
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dem24 replied to snowyowl33's response:
things may be a little bit more than what i said, i thought a lot about what you said snowy, this may help everyone understand me better, may be if i lay it in front of me better it would help me look at things better,i am not going to rush doing this. i do not expect any one to understand, i can do sixteen ways of sunday to change things,but it will not change the hurt and heartbreak i live with,people in this board may cut, i do it where no one sees
 
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dem24 replied to dem24's response:
you want to know why i get so upset here is a perfect example. my brother s ex who shares a child with was my next door neighbor witch was a nightmare, she no longer ;ines here but he does, i was told by the manger that she was not allowed here, if anyone lets her on their house they would be evicted. his answer to that was he was never told, i said to him that the site manger probally thought i tikd him, he said he woulf say that i never told him because i was to afraid. his ex akmosr got my kids and i thrown out of our apartment just to get even with him ans also left my 16 year old daughter in a casino parking kot in high crime area just ti go gambling. i am noy afraid to say anything when it comes to her, so the easy way out is to blame the dunb crazy sister and say that i never told him i try really hard to turn a deaf ear to it, things like this is why always want to hurt myself
 
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Caprice_WebMD_Staff replied to snowyowl33's response:
Oh, for heaven's sake! I can't believe I did that, Snowy! I'm so sorry!

Now I get all the jokes about it. LOL!
We never touch people so lightly that we do not leave a trace. ~Peggy Tabor Millin
 
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dem24 replied to Caprice_WebMD_Staff's response:
????????????? whatever


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