Skip to content

    Announcements

    Attention All WebMD Community Members:

    These message boards are closed to posting. Please head on over to our new WebMD Message Boards to check out and participate in the great conversations taking place: https://messageboards.webmd.com/

    Your new WebMD Message Boards are now open!

    Making the move is as easy as 1-2-3.

    1.Head over to this page: https://messageboards.webmd.com/health-conditions/f/mental-health/

    2.Choose the tag from the drop-down menu that clicks most with you (and add it to any posts you create so others can easily find and sort through posts)

    3. Start posting

    Have questions? Email us anytime at CommunityManagement@webmd.net

    It's been suggested that we leave a space between the start of a post and the triggering part.

    Write something innocuous in the first line. then leave some spaces between in and the subject matter. this should take care of accidentally triggering someone.

    How and Why to Report a Post
    done done
    avatar
    friedeggs posted:
    trigger///////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// //////////////////////////////people can talk and judge me about my life , that i am stupid and unrealstic but yet i suppose to care and be responsible. yet the those people can do things that can hurt people that do that hurt people that dont have a voice, but yet they know what they are doing, i didnt ask for this. i was a child.i am suppose to live because society says so. that is a load of bull. i want OUT
    A best friend is someone who never leaves you when you need them.Someone who never means to hurt you.And is someone who loves you.
     
    avatar
    lexismom11 responded:
    I would say that you should live not just because society says so, but because you have people around you that love you and care what happens to you. Please don't choose that road because you are worth a lot more than that. Take care of yourself and call someone if you have to in order to be safe.
     
    avatar
    MandyCake responded:
    Friedeggs,

    "In the eyes of GOD, self-worth is a given just as is your birth right." So to heck with society... you are here because GOD see's the blessing in you, that IS YOU. I, for one, am thankful for you.

    Gra"
    Bonnie
    I have acheived my dream of being a kyte, for a single day, riding the wind. The anchors that held me down lifted... I was set free.. Now my journey of healing is possible. Gra' Bonnie
     
    avatar
    friedeggs replied to MandyCake's response:
    writing is getting really hard, it is taking to much work. please do not take it personally. i will help as much as i can. but i may be lurking i love you guys
    A best friend is someone who never leaves you when you need them.Someone who never means to hurt you.And is someone who loves you.
     
    avatar
    friedeggs replied to friedeggs's response:
    ty you bonnys love you too
    A best friend is someone who never leaves you when you need them.Someone who never means to hurt you.And is someone who loves you.
     
    avatar
    friedeggs replied to friedeggs's response:
    trigger////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// ///////////////////////////////clock is ticking i cant take anythng else
    Healthy relationship ingredients: Love without fear. Trust without wondering. Be there without restrictions. Accept someone without wanting to change them...
     
    avatar
    MandyCake replied to friedeggs's response:
    Sweet woman, hide the clock... Now a new day has dawned and with each new day, comes a new beginning. So please,
    utilize today's newness and reach out, make yourself heard,
    be assertive, go after what you need, find that warrior spirit that
    sleeps within you and let her take charge. "Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change." "Be the change that your seek."

    Love to you.
    Bonnie
    I have acheived my dream of being a kyte, for a single day, riding the wind. The anchors that held me down lifted... I was set free.. Now my journey of healing is possible. Gra' Bonnie
     
    avatar
    Kate_Te replied to MandyCake's response:
    Dem -
    I echo Bonnie & Lexismom's words. You are worthwhile. You are an amazing woman & I'm am forever impressed with your strength. You are always putting yourself down, but you are stronger, smarter & braver than most people. How you have handled your son's issues while facing your own mental health issues is nothing short of incredible.
    Hang in there Dem, You are worth the effort!
    Kate_Te
     
    avatar
    friedeggs replied to Kate_Te's response:
    I thank you all and love for it. but i do know this you are not the first one to tell me this.but you all do not get it, does not take away the emptiness and not feeling loved. i am so very sleepy. i have to stay awake for 2 more hours. i am to emotional to talk. i just looked in to see if there any word on bb
    Healthy relationship ingredients: Love without fear. Trust without wondering. Be there without restrictions. Accept someone without wanting to change them...
     
    avatar
    MandyCake replied to friedeggs's response:
    ((((DEM))))

    Please know that I do understand. I feel empty inside and I do not feel loved (outside of you all here). I feel like I am not real, a shadow that just exists and am forced to watch life go on around me. Seeing but never belonging. Thinking no one (outside of you all here) would miss me if I vanished entirely. I hate how lonely I feel and I'm angry that neither life nor death will committ to me fully. I feel, I have never been wanted, never belonged anywhere, and all of those other negative thoughts we tend to have about ourselves....

    With this said... I have become stronger, because of you, my beautiful loving sisters here...

    I now am using these negatives to fight back. Darn it... WE DO MATTER. WE DO DESERVE LOVE... WE DO DESERVE TO LIVE AND NOT JUST EXIST. WE DO DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT. WE DO DESERVE TO HAVE OUR NEEDS MET. WE DO DESERVE THE USE OF OUR VOICES. WE DESERVE!!!

    It is okay to sit with what you are feeling and not talk... What you feel, you can heal... I wish I were there with you... not to talk... just to hold you in my arms until you finally found peace in sleep. and even then, I would be your angel standing by to keep the nightmare demons at bay...

    I Love You Dem....
    Bonnie
    I have acheived my dream of being a kyte, for a single day, riding the wind. The anchors that held me down lifted... I was set free.. Now my journey of healing is possible. Gra' Bonnie
     
    avatar
    Caprice_WebMD_Staff replied to MandyCake's response:
    So well said, Bonnie.
    You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
    ~Christopher Robin to Pooh
     
    avatar
    friedeggs replied to Caprice_WebMD_Staff's response:
    u feel so horribly sad and alone, i dont know how to deal with it. i will be not around that much in the few days, my mom os coning to town and my brother us having operation, i love and will ,miss you
    Healthy relationship ingredients: Love without fear. Trust without wondering. Be there without restrictions. Accept someone without wanting to change them...
     
    avatar
    Kate_Te replied to friedeggs's response:
    Dem -
    I hope you find some enjoyment in the holiday & pray your son does well. I feel alone too. I will be busy this weekend, but still feel alone with my family. I just want it to be Monday already.


    Spotlight: Member Stories

    (possible triggers...) I am in my late 20s and have been up to no good SHing for over 10 years. No achievement there . This community is a relief to ...More

    Helpful Tips

    For when you can't find the words
    Inspired by replying to another post... I thought something like this might be useful for those of us who have taken to injuring ourselves ... More
    Was this Helpful?
    33 of 35 found this helpful

    Report Problems With Your Medications to the FDA

    FDAYou are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit the FDA MedWatch website or call 1-800-FDA-1088.