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He falls right to sleep after sex!
Chris_WebMD_Staff posted:
Do you cuddle or fall asleep after sex? Do you mind if your partner goes right to sleep after you are intimate?

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Anon_134786 responded:
My DBF usually will lay a certain way so we can cuddle because he usually falls asleep almost instantly lol. He asked me one morning after we had sex if he told me he loved me or anything, which he had, he then told me after we've had sex and he's already came he can't remember details for a while. I find this so funny and interesting.

I usually like to cuddle before I sleep, I'm a night owl anyways so I stay up for a little bit.
tlkittycat1968 responded:
If we just had sex around our usual bedtime then I'm usually ready for sleep and don't mind he he goes right to sleep afterward because more than likely that's what I'm gonna do as well.

We aren't really a cuddling after sex type of couple anyways. Even if we aren't going to sleep right afterward, we don't usually cuddle when we're done.
An_240941 responded:
We cuddle when we are awake & hanging out with the kids. I can't stand to cuddle after sex. I'm hot & sweaty & gross & want to either shower or sleep....DH is pretty much the same. It's a kiss, an I love, & then off to sleep.
Anon_4048 responded:
One of our many reasons for having sex is to help the other fall asleep, so falling asleep after the sex is one of the goals and I don't mind.
wonderingaboutthis responded:
We cuddle until we fall asleep. One of our favorite sex positions is spooning, i.e. lying on our sides with me entering her from behind. After our orgasms, I love to just leave my penis inside her and cuddle in the spoon position, holding her breast in my free hand I can usually stay erect for quite a while after sex, and we've often fallen asleep still coupled. The warmth and wetness is a big sensual plus for both of us.

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