Sex make me feel ill and foreplay makes me feel dirty. I don't want to read books on how to liven up my sex life. I don't want it...plain and simple. I cannot get my husband to understand how it makes me feel; when I try it turns it around onto himself and then we end up having sex and doing what I just told him I didn't want to do.
I was molested as a child, raped as a teenager and as a young adult. I have always thought of sex as a way to keep a man from leaving me...and so far; I have been right on this one. How can I get my husband to understand; to completely understand what having sex does to me. He knows about me being molested and raped, he knows how sex and foreplay makes me feel; but it's as if he doesn't care. It's my body; shouldn't I be able to have the last say?
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