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    am i losing it
    tiggsluv406 posted:
    why is it that my fiance and i really dont have sex like we used to ,i know i have some health problems and he works nights now. but it sems the only time he wants to touch me is after hes watched his lil porn or hes thinking about another woman, i know we have our fantasies but lately its been bothering me alot , i dont look like i did when we first dated , but niether does he , it makes me wonder if it has to come to porn or fantasies to touch me... ive tried talking to him about it but he tells me its me , and i have nothing to worry about its breaking my heart and confusing me big time ,,, i need some help on this ... am i insecure or is there really something between the lines im not catching ,, he tells me he loves me all the time but things just dont feel right i know hes not cheating but it puts a nail thru my heart knowing it takes these things for him to touch me like this ........
    yoko24 responded:
    try surprising him... even if it doesnt work the first time or even the second time dont be worried or discouraged. spice things up.... go online and get some sexy lingerie that will along with the contour of your body and show off curves, ass, clevage, whatever you have to show off. then go to your local adult bookstore and get some toys or other thing to play around with. sometimes guys get bored if the sex is always the same. but that doesnt mean hes not attracted to you hun. im sure theres nothing to worry about. try what i told you. i hope things get better keep you head up high no matter what happens babe, its a womans world out there. good luck
    tiggsluv406 replied to yoko24's response:
    ive done everything you suggested and nothing he just doesnt seem to be intrested , ive tried on numerous occasions and he just doesnt respond to me im to the point where im ready to leave, i will not be held 2nd to porn or the thought of some other womans body ,

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