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    Painful Sex
    An_248493 posted:
    I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and it was very painful. It hurt so bad I made him stop, I couldn't even let him go in. We did it again a few weeks later and it was still a little painful and I made him stop after a few minutes.

    Is this normal?
    elle0317 responded:
    Did you do foreplay before the sex to make sure that you were really wet and aroused?
    An_248493 replied to elle0317's response:
    Yeah we did. It didn't really hurt too bad the second time, just when he went real deep. He's also about 8 inches big and he's also pretty thick.
    fcl replied to An_248493's response:
    The chances are he's hitting your cervix. You could ask him to not go so deep and also avoid deep penetration positions (like doggy, for instance). Another possible solution would be to buy a foam ring (like a donut) that would fit over his penis so that he could not go quite so deep.

    Good luck.
    There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.

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