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    Why Is It
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    tlkittycat1968 posted:
    If a guy has sex with another guy just once (young, stupid, drunk, whatever), people assume he's gay but if a female has sex with another woman, it's a turn-on for many guys?
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    elle0317 responded:
    It's nothing more than a double standard, IMO. I've often wondered the same thing. I hope we can get a male perspective on this question.
     
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    hairyd responded:
    kcat it is a turn on to watch a male and female have sex; also.
    The beauty and loving of two females is a differant scene than that of two males. The males are enjoying the view of the female's body ; Not their actions.
    The male knows what he is doing and why. If he is drunk, stupid, young or whatever. But only he know if he is a homosexual.
    Always remember your penis is unique, just like every man.
     
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    hairyd replied to hairyd's response:
    After this post I discussed this with a client. Just asking if either of you. Just asking?
    Is it a turn on for a female to watch two males having sexual oral or anus sex?
    Always remember your penis is unique, just like every man.
     
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    elle0317 replied to hairyd's response:
    To be honest, I've never watched guy-on-guy porn. But, I wouldn't turn it off either, I would watch it.
     
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    tlkittycat1968 replied to hairyd's response:
    I, too, have never watched male on male porn.
     
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    hairyd replied to tlkittycat1968's response:
    Thanks ladies, I apologize if I was not clear with my question. But my patient was waiting.

    I was not asking it you would watch men ( in person) or male on male porn. You may learn or it may be humurous..

    My question
    Would sex between two or more males be a sexual turn on for you?

    Since you stated female/ female sex is a turn on for many guys. but male on male sex is not
    Always remember your penis is unique, just like every man.
     
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    georgiagail replied to hairyd's response:
    "Would sex between two or more males be a sexual turn on for you?"

    No.

    Gail
     
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    tmlmtlrl responded:
    I think there's a few things at play here. First I've been told the difference is that, with men, because there is penetration it is different. I also think it has to do with the level of taboo associated with men that if a guy is willing to cross those lines then it is believed there is 'more to it'. With women it is welcomed and encouraged by most people.
     
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    hairyd replied to tmlmtlrl's response:
    I agree it is more to IT But this is also the case with some females. When there is penetration.
    Always remember your penis is unique, just like every man.


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