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confused at my boyfriends porn
rwood1987 posted:
I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3.5 years and did not know he was consistently watching porn until a few months ago. I at first reacted immaturely assumed he was more attracted to nasty porn stars than me when in reality every guy watches porn.

However, the odd/concerning part is that the only porn he seemed to be watching was anal sex. We do not have anal sex and from what he has said, he has absolutely 0 urge to have anal sex. I guess I am at a loss, I am not sure if men watch porn that is interesting but they would never do or if my boyfriend will not open up about what he does want sexually. Sex typically hurts for me so we don't have it that often, but I still find this to be confusing. If anyone has any advice or help it would be much appreciated!

dfromspencer responded:
His choice of porn doesn't nessasarily mean he wants to do that. But it is an indication of something he might want to try. You need to reaasure him, and get him to open up to you, about his sexual preferences.

If it hurts you to have vaginal sex, perhaps you might try anal? Sure, it will hurt the first time. Go slow, ease it in there, and see how that feels? Who knows, you may just enjoy sex again, both of you?

Good luck!


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