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    An_244703 posted:
    am aroused easily and always have a hard on while playing around with my gf.the issue is that i feel satisfied easily and nearly cum at the begining of intercourse and hence loose it until i feel aroused again and then works fine,it is the time between both that i feel helpless ,how can i control myself from coming easily.
    elle0317 responded:
    try masturbating before you meet up with your gf.
    stevesmw responded:
    Seems like what you are doing works. The fact that you are so aroused is a big compliment to your girlfriend. The more intercourse you have, the better your control will be. I understand your feeling of helplessness. I think most men want control of their penis; to get hard when they want and orgasm when they want.
    dfromspencer responded:
    Try this exercise, start peeing, then stop the flow mid stream. Feel that muscle? Now, do not do this all the time while peeing, you can hurt yourself. Rather, constrict this muscle time after time, till you build it up. This will help you stop having pre-mature ejackulations.

    Another thing to try, when you are about to explode, grip the bottom of your shaft, gently but firmly enough to stop the orgasm. Do this as much as it takes to get through the sex, or till your G.F. comes first, then let er fly!!!

    Good luck!!!


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