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    No Dance
    tlkittycat1968 posted:
    I think I'm the only female who goes to a strip club with DH to celebrate her birthday and then gets upset when she doesn't get a lap dance.

    The club we go to has specials where you get two lap dances and a porn video for $20. None of the dancers even glanced our way and DH pretty much had to flag one down for himself. After he left, one dancer said hi but that was it. Not one asked if I wanted the dances/video.
    kramer1961 responded:
    Yup, you're the only one. However, in my experience strippers aren't that particular as long as they get paid, so I wouldn't take it personally.

    dfromspencer responded:
    You want to know what your whole problem was???

    You wasn't holding a fistful of cash!

    Every place I have ever been to, if you don't spend money on the strippers, or at the bar, the women will ignore you! If you flash some cash, they will be all over you!!!

    Then you would have the choice of who gave you that lap dance!!! LOL!!!

    Happy Birthday!!!

    sluggo45692 responded:
    Hi cat.
    A lot of the girls in those places won't typically go after the only woman in the group. Like Dennis said, you got to flash some cash. It also could have been a real dive (a lot are) and the girls were only going to where they could see the big tips. I was in one once. where the woman on stage from the neck down looked like a 25 year old. Neck up in her 60's. I left after the 6 month pregnant girl got up next.

    Plus they might be afraid you might react badly if they touched your man. I know my ex and gf would react very badly if a woman rubbed her breast on me. The also know it would be very hard for me not to touch back. You did say a porn video for $20.

    Good Luck next time and remember FLASH SOME CASH

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