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    my husband does turn me on anymore
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    anonymous posted:
    my husband does trun me on anymore, we only been married since July of last year and now im pregnant we our second child. I not happy he puts me down a lot and really does spend that much time with me. Instead he talk to girls on line and watch a lot of porn and i thinks it turns me off. What should i do im unhappy and do not want to leave him cause of the kids.
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    cake4all responded:
    mean does not turn me on
     
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    nohard responded:
    Hi, Seems he's just using you for an address, since you married, it can happen.
    You need to sit down and have a long talk, if you can drag him away fro m his computer try some counselling, and take it from there,
    Good Luck
     
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    billnjenn responded:
    Have you asked him why? Have you let him know these things bother you?
     
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    kramer1961 replied to billnjenn's response:
    To the original poster: This is who he is, and apparently you've discovered it too late for a convenient retreat. You are not going to change his character, but you might be able to improve his behavior through discussion or counseling. I'm not a big fan of going to sob-sisters for help, but those are your options if you have to stay with him.

    This is your life though, and if he doesn't treat you well, do you think he won't damage the kids? It could be an expensive meal ticket, and not just for you.

    kram
     
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    billnjenn responded:
    Too bad you did not follow up to the responses.
    You are having another child, which seems to indicate you have been together for some time. If he has changed, find out why. If he has always been this way and you were ok with it until now, why have you changed? Did he promise to change?
    It is easy to just attack him for his actions, but without more information there is no real help that anyone can give you.
     
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    dfromspencer replied to cake4all's response:
    Hi, from what little you have provided, I have to go with what billnjenn said, not enough info!!!


    If you want some help, you have to provide some details of his, and your own behaviors? Just stating these few things, does not make it very easy to help you?!


    You are having "another" child with this man, or is it manchild? Yet you say he does not turn you on, anymore? How does that work out? If you didn't like him, or he doesn't like you, why have any children together?


    I'm sorry, but you haven't provided near enough info to go on?


    Good luck to you!!!


    Dennis


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