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    The power of the mind
    stevesmw posted:
    My wife fell and strained some thigh muscles. She was taking pain killers all day and drinking (not a good idea). We were lying in bed with her facing my back. She has PTSD and sometimes when she is totally zonked she gets very aroused. She started orgasming for about 5 minutes without any self stimulation. I was a bystander and there was now way I would be able to get involved. I have ED issues and I developed one of the strongest erections I've had in years. I hadn't taken any ed meds and the erection was much better than when I take them. I'm hoping someday are lovemaking resumes. I can only evaluate my response from chemical or physical stimuli and it is lacking, but the mind can take it to another level.
    nohard responded:
    Hi Steve, Perhaps you should try just listening to porn, this may raise your libido, again and again, its the power of the mind over ED
    Good Luck
    stevesmw replied to nohard's response:
    Porn is a poor substitute for reality. First porn I watched was in the late 70's (movie theaters) , 80's video tapes .and 90's the beginning of the internet. I haven't watched any for 20 years. It's fake and repetitive. When I need a good fantasy, I go to my mind. Plenty of good stuff to draw from there.

    I don't think listening to a woman having a fake orgasm is the same as lying next to a real person having a real orgasm.

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