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ericstressed posted:
Ok so i took the hiv test and it came back neg it was a very scary,thing to experience,but i am,glad that it came back neg. Although two days ago i recieved unprotected,oral and i heard that that was zero,risk,behaviour regarding transmission of hiv , i guess,im a bit paranoid by that in a sense but what really makes me paranoid is at the time i was drunk im old enough,to have a few,drinka once in a while in my home i took your advice of,not,going to parties sanymore but now im just like i remember her,giving,me head and i remember fingering,her but i,dont remember if i had sex,with her . Thia is freaking me out because i dont want to have sex especially since i,disnt have a condom,now i am,freaked,out that i had sex with her without knwing,because she was,trying ro persuade,me,to,have sex,without a,cobdom am,i,at,risk!
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ericstressed responded:
Someone help number1: blowjob unprotected a risk teak and,other experts,say its not,a,risk,for,hiv 2: would i know if i had sex or remember something if i did and was,drunk ? Gail?
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
Are you at risk?

Depends on 1. If she is HIV positive and 2. If you had actual intercourse with her.

Frankly, both your previous posts about drinking at parties to the point of passing out and this one being so drunk you can't remember whether you had sex with her on not leads one to wonder if you're more at risk for substance abuse problems than anything else.


Gail
 
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ericstressed replied to georgiagail's response:
Well why do hiv experts say its zero,risk,even,if the person has,hiv for recieving a,blowjob gail? The experts say its no,risk,whatsoever....and wouldnt i at least,remember some bits and pieces of having sex if we did?
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
The "experts" don't say it's no risk from oral sex with a partner who is HIV positive. The estimated risk from unprotected oral sex is .5 to 1 per 10,000 exposures with a source known to carry the virus.


I'd imagine you would remember having had sex if you did so with her.


Gail
 
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fcl replied to ericstressed's response:
If you were so drunk that you cannot remember what you did, I seriously doubt that you would have been able to maintain an erection to have sex.

No offence intended, Eric, but don't you think it's time you sought help for your drinking issues?
There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.
 
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ericstressed replied to fcl's response:
Ok so the experts on medhelp teak and lizzie and docotor jose when i asked if it was a risk recieving a blowjob from an,hiv pos person they told me that oral sex is not a,risk for,hiv that you cannot get hiv via oral,sex there are thousands upon thousands of quotes among the experts,hiv specialista that all say recieving oral is zero risl because saliva contains enzymes that prohibit the hiv virus to pass . Why do u disagree ? Even if there is a theoritical risk its noy likely u say so,why do some people say zero risk and u say highly unlikely risk?
 
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ericstressed replied to ericstressed's response:
Teak said im sure you can find people out there that believe hiv is,a,risk with oral,sex but u cant find scientific,data to support that so why do u tjink its a risk gail?
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
Does it matter??? Are you really now going to obsess over an estimated risk of .5 to 1 per 10,000 exposures? (I suspect you will). The whole point of my posting this is to point out that THIS IS AN EXTREMELY, EXTREMLY SMALL RISK TO BEGIN WITH.


Besides your real question is whether, in your drunken state, you had sex with your partner and if so, and if she were HIV positive, were you at risk for HIV transmission.


I agree with fcl if you were so drunk you can't remember having had sex, it's unlikely you could achieve an erection to be able TO have intercourse.

Gail
 
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ericstressed replied to georgiagail's response:
Ok i just want to say thank you for your help because it calms my anxiety down, so even if i was a bit intoxicated i would definitely have some memory of it? I wouldnt be tryung this hard to think or remember if we did???
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
You'd remember having sex if you actually had intercourse. Really.

Honestly kiddo, if you can't remember much of anything from the event two days ago you were more than a "bit" intoxicated.


Gail
 
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ericstressed replied to georgiagail's response:
Ok so im not trying to be funny here but i guess i just want to know if im being paranoid. I stay in a trailer park and its not the safest we have had two breakins and my roomates car got stolen right out of the parking lot last month so its really sketchy but its the only place i have to live anyways im always worried someone is going to break in at night and let alone break in and see me sleeping on the couch and them bein a addict or junkie them having a needle and see me and poke me while im sleeping sigh this is a serious worry for me. How likely is this to happen? I checked my arms for needle marks this morning eugh would some crackhead break,in ever and stick me with hiv? I just got tested n it was neg now im worried about this gail
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
"anyways im always worried someone is going to break in at night and let alone break in and see me sleeping on the couch and them bein a addict or junkie them having a needle and see me and poke me while im sleeping sigh this is a serious worry for me. How likely is this to happen? "


And the point of an addict or junkie doing this would be...what???


Look; the point of an addict or junkie breaking into your place would be to rob you of stuff they can sell to buy more drugs, not to run around with HIV tainted needles they can stick into you while you are sleeping.


Your worries about all this needle sticking business just isn't realistic.

Gail
 
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ericstressed replied to georgiagail's response:
So noone would break in just to infect someone with the,virus,with a,needle while i was ssleeping just to mess up my life? And i mean u still think this never or will,never happen and i dont need to test for,hiv sigh i hate this eugh
 
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georgiagail replied to ericstressed's response:
No, no one would do this. Stop worrying about this.

Gail


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