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Men Who Masturbate Alot
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rwd123 posted:
OK, this is simply a discussion of opinion from both male and female. Men who actively masterbate have problems when having sex with their partner. Men need that release, everyone agrees but men who do not masterbate rarely have problems when it comes to getting erections and are likely too be frequently sexually involved with someone.

Men who masterbate alot are generally men who are alone (not involved with anyone). It seems to me that these are generally the men who have problems with erections Not talking about those who have medical issues. I'm talking about those who are heathy.

My opinion;

It is not good for men to masturbate Healthy men who are sexually active from youth on with a partner do not have these erection problems. There mental and physical tuition tells them this is right, its what feels good and it stimulates erouwsal to get close to the opposite sex.

Men who masturbate ALOT seek out porn that gets them excited, they touch them selfs and strokes them selfs in a way that feels good. When they do this they have no problem getting erouwsed but when they encounter the opposite sex it is mentally and physically forien to them even though they may fantasize haveing sex with this person while masturbateing. They have trouble getting erouwsed when it comes to the real deal.

Now i would love to hear everyones opinion who would have something to say about this. Sorry for the mispelled words.
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FCL responded:
Masturbating does not cause ED. Not masturbating will not avoid ED.

Men who masturbate a lot are not necessarily single - more likely just horny ... or have a higher sex drive than their partners.

Men who masturbate a lot are no more likely to find encounters with the opposite sex to be mentally and physically foreign to them than men who do not masturbate a lot.

PS - if you're aware you misspelled words, why didn't you just use the spell check?
 
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mhtyler2 responded:
disagree with everything RWD wrote, agree with everything FCL wrote.
 
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3point14 responded:
I think the most offensive line, and there are many, is that men who masturbate are generally men who are alone. No, men who masturbate are generally men who enjoy orgasms, and I'm not a social scientist, but I'd say that's most of them.

Masturbation is a healthy, normal thing for both men and women, and erectile dysfunction has a myraid of both causes and cures, and yes masturbtion can be either. Oh, and to help you out...

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    rwd123 responded:
    Well i've read what i wrote and don't understand how any of it could be tooken offensively and this is not a spelling contest it's a discution so please i'm not saying masturbation is wrong i'm just saying i believe it causes problems with healthy men not those with ED. If you can obtain an erection when you masturbate then i believe ED's not the issue. I've read many post in here on the the issue of masturbation and men not functioning well when it comes to the real deal. I would love here from a women that could say my husband or boyfriend masturbates nearly everyday and we have a satisfying sex life. I'm not talking about ED or causes and cures for it, just healthy men and masturbateing. Please re-read my post, im trying to offend anyone.
     
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    3point14 responded:
    I'm glad you'd love to hear it, because I am happy to say it. The man in my life masturbates every day and we have a VERY satisfying sex life.

    Masturbation CAN be detrimental to a man's partnered sex life. As can smoking cigarettes, being stressed for work, and a TON of other things. I guess I mainly just don't get your point, are you trying to say that a man can only be satisfied if he masturbates if he makes enough of a habit of it? Because maybe that's true if men are masturbating proportionally more than their libido allows them for sexual activity, but why would someone do that anyway?

    I suppose you could be talking about the fact that a man has the potential to get used to the firm grip of a hand rather than the different feeling of a vagina (or any other orifice), but again, that's a problem really pertaining to an individual rather than EVERY man who masturbates. And if a man is masturbating with a Fleshlight (or something like it), or just by stimulating his prostate, he won't get the "gripping" issues.

    Maybe you're getting into the meotional well-being issue. Maybe a man can't keep it up because his girlfriend's not as hot as a pornstar, or a boyfriend feels insecure because he's not hung like one. Again, this would make masturbation a symptom of a greater issue rather than just a purely sexual release for a healthy man.

    In actuality, many men who masturbate are actually much MORE sensual. They have more experience as to what they like, and are more like to satisfy their own urge for orgasm and can then concentrate on satisfying their lover. Masturbation is an absolute godsend for a partner who has a lower libido, takes the pressure off of engaging in something they're not in the mood for. Masturbation is a good gauge of sexual function, and can help a man be more aware of his body and possible issues or changes that occur. Masturbation is a much better alternative to cheating.

    In my opinion and (somewhat limited) experience, masturbation is both "normal" and "healthy".
     
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    mhtyler2 responded:
    rwd I think your point is very confused. In your original message you definitely link ED with masturbation, and then in your clarification you indicate that in healthy men who masturbate ED is not the issue. I've no idea what you're really getting at other than you'd rather that men not masturbate.

    While you're entitled to your opinion, you'd better get used to men that masturbate, because there are almost no men in the entire world who don't...barring eunuchs.

    95 % of all men masturbate, and the other 5 %? They masturbate too, they're just lying about it.

    Its how it is, so the discussion is entirely theoretical at best. Personally, I recommend masturbation for both men and women. What on earth is the point of playing hard to get with yourself?

    Finally, there is no data whatsoever to support the notion that masturbation is in any way harmful.

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    crazyfoot40 responded:
    rwd...I suppose it would be somewhat ideal to have a partner all your life who could satisfy you whenever you wanted sex. But as of today, I don't think I have ever met one of these fortunate guys. As Bill Clinton demonstrated for the world to see, even the President of the United States must sometimes resort to other avenues to find his gratification. Tom
     
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    mhtyler2 responded:
    I hope we haven't driven the OP off, I'd be interested to know the basis for her opinions on masturbation, however wide of the mark I think they are.

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    FCL responded:
    I hope we haven't driven her off, too. It would be such a pity. Goodness, we'd have to resort to speculation...
     
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    rwd123 responded:
    WOW, i didn't realize this would be such a sensitive issue. Come on people, it's just a discution. This is my point, i've been married twice. First to a guy who i met in high school and now to a Man i've been married too for 15 years. The first guy masturbated even after we were married and our sex life was unsatisfying for me. He would have problems getting an erection but the next day i would catch him masturbating. Now my current husband does not masturbate, we have a pretty enjoyable sex life. I know this doesn't apply to every man like i first ensenuated, (didn't mean to do that). Now i've talked to friends about this and they agree with me.. Excuse me for asking for your opinions.
     
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    mhtyler2 responded:
    I think rwd, you're accusing us of being sensitive, when in fact you are the one emotionally attached to this issue. None of us are. I think plainly within the framework of your situation that your first husband was masturbating to the point where it interfered with your marital relations. Everyone here agrees that is excessive, and selfish.

    As for your second husband NOT masturbating, it would be more correct to say he doesn't masturbate that you know of. Most men in marriage do still masturbate, at least occasionally, which btw implies that a small percentage don't, and your husband could be among them. That would make him a rare bird though.

    BTW, you didn't insinuate that men shouldn't masturbate, you said it straight out. Your second response then refuted your first statement, and now you acknowledge that your concern is specific to your own situation.

    We are all here because the subject matter interests us and we enjoy discussion, but if you keep changing your story, and changing the rules when your statements conflict or are insupportable, stop wondering why they get challenged.

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    aintnothinbutahorndog responded:
    hmmm... heated discussion... anyway, in my own experience, masturbating is awesome! I probably have a large libido, but being single only gave me more time to relieve myself, I love porn and will masturbate immediately after i already have, with its assistance; however, i haven't seen a change in the recovery time after masturbating since i've been with my girlfriend, i have however seen the effects of how quickly my girlfriend can speed up the recovery process, she turns me on a lot by the way, which in my opinion could have something to do with your first husband. So basically no change, even though i still masturbate on a regular basis.

    Points: After masturbation the speed to recovery depends on your arousal level, and your libido. And even though i love masturbating w/ the touching and pleasing myself, i definately think sex is better. I dont think masturbation had anything to do with it. Your first husband was masturbating which means he did have the urge, he either didn't have that much libido and wanted to savor it masturbating, or didnt get turned on for sex with you, and used the masturbating to avoid it.


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