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This sounds horroble. I feel so bad for you. It never happen to me. Was it like an upset stomach? Uncontrollable? You did not even feel it coming huh? Thats weird. I do not think its normal. Maybe you should address that with your doctor. I know its not something you would want to talk about but hey if its a health issue better know earlier then later...right?

Aaawww, sweetie. The thing about great sex is that you never know what do expect. The last thing you want to feel is humiliation and embarrassment. Did you have an upset stomach?? Maybe you had such an intense orgasm that you pushed down during it?? Either way, if he is a man worthy of you, he should understand. So sorry that this experience made you feel the way it did. Maybe next time make sure that you don't have the urge to make a bowel movement before you have sex. Truly, some people don't know when they have to go?? If this is the first time, chances are you don't have a medical issue, but if it happens again, perhaps ask your dr. I could be a simple as having a mind-blowing orgasm and your body just pushed everything out. Please feel better. And, why not call him and say something that may make both of you feel more comfortable like..'OK, now that we got the embarrassing stuff out of the way....would you like to go see a movie??' It will help him AND you put it into perspective.

I totally agree with everything NewChance said; If this guy is so immature that he can't handle a little "oops" like that, than he is not worth your time. As much fun as sex can be it also has it's downsides every once in a while, this was one of them. My advice is you have to treat it as just "one of those things" and move on.

Aug158, I'll tell you one of my recent situations to try and make you feel better: My guy was manually stimulating me and decided it he would try to give me more pleasure by inserting his finger up my behind. I felt it but ignored it because he still had a digit in my front and I didn't care about anything at the time (LOL). But, afterwards he says "I think you had a little bit of poop come out." Needless to say for a split second I was mortified as well, but then remembered I have two tiny hemorrhoids sticking out (which is why I tried to keep him away from there in the first place). So, I said very matter-of-factly "Oh, honey, that's just my hemorrhoids, no worries". BUT, even if it were poop I don't think he would have made me feel bad, we would have just cleaned up and gone on....

So, good luck to you and hopefully you just haven't heard from your guy because maybe he's trying to figure out how not to make you feel bad or just been busy.

Yeap except I was on the receiving end. I was giving the wife oral with her on her back but laying on my stomach. I was underneath her if you can picture with her behind on my face. Well I stopped with the tongue and was using my fingers when she had a really big O, and you guessed it. As she was having a Big O, a big one also popped out of her behind.

She was a bit embarrassed but I just cleaner her up with some tissue. We still laugh today about how I f***** the poop out of her.

That was about 30 years ago and we STILL use that same position.

Most embarrassing things that happen during sex lead to great laughter later.

JJ

Was that anal sex?

Didn't someone explain, "Sh*t happens"?

2Stubby: Apparently sh*t does happen.....

aug158: I hope you have recovered. Now, I will give you all a laugh for your Valentines Day. Since I can't tell anyone, you guys are the lucky ones....

Well, I had my turn. Last night while me and the bf were getting frisky in the backseat of the car (our room mates were home and no where else to go, so thought we'd try "parking" like back in our teen years) I was straddled across his lap and he was fingering me so intensely that without me even knowing/feeling it my body decides to shoot out a turd about the size of a brussell sprout. He says "what was that?", I say "what was what?" (pant, pant). So he brings his hand around and to my mortification it's what I figured the only thing it could be. So I opened the car door and threw it out into the snow and quickly made him wash his hands (with hand-sanitizer) TWICE! So then I start to laugh and say "Is my body EVER going to stop doing embarrassing things around you!" He laughs with me ands says "Don't worry about it". But STILL, c'mon, how humiliating is that! I just thank my lucky stars it wasn't "runny". However, now I don't even want to see him today, Valentine's Day of all things, until I get past this some more. Ugh!

Hope you all enjoyed that little story and never have to go through it yourselves!

And, Aug158, hope your situation turned out OK. You're definitely not alone!

No big deal, everything down there is pretty much connected. Too much pressure in one area will cause the body to expell things.

That's why a lot of women (especially those deliveraing vaginally) tend to have bowel movements while giving birth. That's a lot of pressure no big deal.

It hasn't happened to the gf yet, but if it does I wouldn't care. Just get up, clean up, and start back if you haven't orgasmed yet

Oh my gosh!!!! I peed my pants reading your story! Thank you so much! I had bowel movements twice during sex in the last month and felt horrible about it. It's so nice to see that I'm not alone and that it's not the end of the world.
Thank you so much JesseGirl01 for sharing your story... I'm still laughing...

That was so funny, and very well told!!! Love it!!!!!

Aww hun don't fret!!.. 2 yrs I kept having my boyfriend bug me about having anal while we were having good old fashioned vaginal intercourse so i finally gave in.. we were in his car and we weren't using protection.......... i FREAKED out bc it hurt... he pulled out and OMG he was covered in excrement!!! I almost burst into to tears because i was so embarrassed and nearly vomitted because i was disgusted.. he just laughed it off.. got out of the car totally NAKED.. popped the trunk and washed himself off w some some water bottles and then wiped off with a t shirt and threw it away... Then proceeded to get back in the car and kissed me and said he wouldn't pressure me again and said he was perfectly fine with whatever i wanted to do =>... the funny thing is that i'm no longer with that guy even tho we still talk to this day and now i LOVE having anal sex.. ha

great answer i had a little thing happen to me today with a guy i truly like and love we had anul sex for the frist time and i had alittle bowel movement i am so embarrass i dont even wont to look at him again what should i do to get over this i have been crying all day just thinking aboat it :{

Don't cry. Next time you will know better.

Go potty (#2) before your man comes over. If you are empty or low of p00p, than no p00p can come out. If you know you are close to doing a #2 and this isn't planned, let your man know, so you can do it 'next' time.

When you are done, make sure your man washes himself, especially if you are going to do vaginal or oral afterwards.

For you, if he is not using a condom, the next time you p00p you will have a little extra something in the toilet.

If it hurts really bad, make sure he goes slow, and use lube (if none is available, use spit)

This just happened to me!! It was the best orgasm I've ever had but when my body relaxed... Well the insides did too. I haven't talked to him for a few days, don't really know what to say or how start without bringing the humiliation back. Did you talk to him again? I totally feel you girl, embarrassment is just the smallest feeling of what I felt.