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Naomi2494 posted:
Everyone one here pretty much knows I'm a 19 year old virgin who doesn't really know much about sex. This question makes me feel like I should know something about it, but I don't. ^^;

Me and my boyfriend for two years are in a long distant relationship. Him in Northern Ireland and me in the USA. We communicate through MSN and Skype.

Anyway, my question is if it's okay to have sex during my periods. I seem to be in the mood a lot more during my periods and my boyfriend loves that. He's able to ignore the blood, I've even shown him what my vagina looks like during my periods over web cam. A lot of times I can't wait for my period to be over so I can masturbate again and cyber with my boyfriend until there's no tomorrow.

Me and my boyfriend act as if we're really with each other physically, so when I'm on my period he does everything but oral through cyber astrix roleplay, or we have cam sex with me feeling my breasts and him basically doing what he always does.

Anywho, sex during periods...okay?
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FCL responded:
There's no reason not to have sex during your period. Same for masturbation.
 
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alaska_mommy responded:
I've done it. Messy, but if you're prepared for that, it's ok.
 
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joshiii responded:
I think it feels quite sticky but other than that its still nice when you do it with the one you love.
 
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Mrs_Sandoval responded:
My husband and I have done it, I didnt like it too much. I kinda felt dirty, but he really wanted to try it. Different strokes for different folks though. If youre comfortable doing it then do it girl.
 
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Elle0317 replied to Mrs_Sandoval's response:
I'm extra horny during my period and having sex helps with the cramps but if I'm flowing too heavy he'll use the back door
 
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Naomi2494 replied to alaska_mommy's response:
Well, me and my boyfriend thought of having sex in the shower during my periods so there isn't much to clean up after. >.>
 
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An_212461 replied to Naomi2494's response:
My husband and I have had it during that time of the month, but it was messy and I felt very uncomfortable. I also get VERY horny during so I couldn't wait until it was over so I could jump him!!!! If he didn't want to, I would HAVE TO masturbate to find relief! Anyway, If you are comfortable with it, it is perfectly alright.
 
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3point14 responded:
YOU SHOWED HIM WHAT YOUR VAGINA LOOKS LIKE WHEN YOU'RE GETTING YOUR PERIOD?!


Then I'd say you are DEFINITELY past the "squeamish" stage about it, and why not try? I mean, it carries all the risks of vaginal sex (STDs and pregnancy) but if he's already seen your menstrual vagina, I'd say "bashfulness" is probably a non-issue.

Holy cow.
 
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lissmeanstrouble replied to 3point14's response:
so when you and your boyfriend have webcam sex he dont show you his dick?( she says she is scared to see a penis)this girl is a trip.... I think your mother is right and you think about/over analyze sex too much, and when your man gets home, you should just bone him and stop worrying so much. Im not tryin to be insensitive, I just feel like your being paranoid to be paranoid, and not letting anything alleviate your paranoia. I agree your obviusly not bashful about your body if you showed him your bloody vagina, so why be bashful about his?
 
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Naomi2494 replied to lissmeanstrouble's response:
He hardly shows it. I can see it during cam sex yes, but not all of it. And when he gets to his climax he immediately covers the cam and goes to wash off. He has never let my see him naked when he isn't hard and all I see is his penis when he is. And my paranoia is from actually, physically being naked around him. We've been an online couple for two years and as soon as he get's the money (which he won't let me help with) he'll be over, but I know as soon as he's naked in front of me I'm gonna act like Tohru for Fruits Basket.
 
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FCL replied to Naomi2494's response:
Would I be right in assuming that you've never actually met him?
 
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joshiii replied to FCL's response:
I think they have been together before that is why they are in a relationship but sadly the guy has to work somewhere far away making it a long distance relationship. Well, thats the way i understood it.
 
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FCL replied to joshiii's response:
I'm not so sure. Given how uncomfortable she seems to be with face-to-face relationships I can understand how an Internet relationship would seem easier for her. That's why I am asking.
 
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Naomi2494 replied to FCL's response:
Correct. We've never met face to face. I seem to do better with online relationships. When I tried going out with one of my friends, he broke up with me a couple weeks after because I really didn't know what do and was clingy due to being nervous.


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