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    vagina to large
    Bug51 posted:
    Is there any thing that can be done if my vagina is too large for my partner
    Emma_WebMD_Staff responded:
    You may want to do kegels more frequently. Here is a WebMD video on Kegels , that should help explain what they are incase you are unsure.
    Joycehere responded:
    I agree. kegels can really change things for you although it will take time and patience. it is not something that happens overnight. but over two months, i think you can make quite a significant difference.
    Joycehere replied to Emma_WebMD_Staff's response:
    I too agree that kegel exercises are extremely effective. it is the reason why so many women use it after pregnancy to make their vagina tight again.
    SC_Cat replied to Joycehere's response:
    the kegels definitely help... also fun to do while your man is inside you... my bf loves it when i tighten and loosen on him while we are making love...
    elmerh replied to SC_Cat's response:
    hey, that is the first time I have heard that..i think this is something that i have to request my girlfriend from now on. it sounds like fun.
    frankieser responded:
    For anyone who is interested. these kegel exercises also work for men. it is a great way of allowing better control over ejaculation.

    The only frustrating part is it takes a lot of time. you will need at least about a couple of months before you see good results. you will also need to be pretty consistent with them.

    The PC muscle in a man is often under exercised. That is the reason why most men ejaculate prematurely. Their PC muscle is not in good shape. Practicing kegels will strengthen the PC muscle over time. These exercises for men will also allow for better erections as the muscle will be able to squirt more blood into the penis. everything about the penis has to do with blood flow to it. the size, the firmness of the erections. they are all related to the quality of blood flow.

    the same principle applies for women and men when it comes to kegel exercises.
    Bug51 replied to frankieser's response:

    WOW.....I can't believe Kegels can make that much of a difference. I am in my early 50's does thtat make a difference? Also any suggestions while I'm working on getting it there? He has become tired of being manuelly stimulated all the time.
    Elisabeth1234 replied to Bug51's response:
    I would suggest less manual stimulation while you're getting there. Even though kegels will make a huge difference, and improve things for both of you, your vagina will never be as tight as your (or his) hand.
    erin_kauff replied to Bug51's response:
    read around this forum. . - there are plenty of creative things being talked about which will definitely give you an idea or two :-)
    gentle1954 responded:
    kegel is the best i guess.
    DB0992 responded:
    I think I need my own acct here, instead of using my husbands. This is a great forum, we've learned a lot here. I'd like to join in on this subject.

    The kegels work great, and will definitely make a difference. They'll actually provide a whole diffrerent sensation if you really work on them, it'll feel like you're jacking him off while inside you. Really!!

    Also, you should move around in many different positions until you find one that makes you more "snug" to him. Trust me, all positions are NOT the same.

    One, lay on your side, try your right side, legs together, pull your knees up toward your chest a little, almost at at right angle, and let him enter you this way from behind. Things really tighten up with this one. Plus, he'll love to watch as he'll have a perfect view which will turn him on even more. And, if you're into some anal play, it's perfect to let him finger you or use a vibrator on you. This is one of our favorites.

    Another, lay flat on your stomach, lay one, maybe two depending on your build, small pillows under your stomach, and legs together. Let him enter you from behind, with his legs outside of your legs. The friction of your legs together while he thrusts will give him a much tighter feeling, and as you get wet, it'll provide all the lube you need for a great session. And, he'll love the feeling of his balls smacking your ass as he thrusts, and I'd bet you'll like that feeling too. We love it. This is also another great lead in to anal if you're into that.

    Another, lay on your back, and he on his right side, at a right angle to you. His right leg on the bed, and his left leg over your right leg, your right leg over his left leg on top, in a sort of a sideways position. Sort of intertwined! (hope that's not confusing) He can thrust all he wants, and you have the freedom to put your hand around his cock and jack him as he thrusts. Even better, if you are the type that gets and stays really wet, or you use lube, use your pussy lips to wrap around his cock as he thrusts, jacking him off. You'll love it too, and he'll cum as quick as you let him. One of my favorites here is to pull off of him right before he cums and let him squirt on my clit,,,,it's awesome, and then put him back in as he cum some more while I rub his semen around me.

    And the dog style from behind, up on your knees, keep your legs together when he enters you, instead of spreading them like most of us do. We do both, but, keeping your legs together tightens you up some, and with kegels here, it works really well. Also, it allows you to reach back and play with your clit, or, again, use your lips to jack him off as the thrusts into you.

    For the basic missionary, reverse your positions. You on your back, and he turns around, his back toward you. It'll help with a few pillows under your lower back here, you'll need elevated somewhat. You'll have to pull your legs back quite far at first, but, you'll adjust. He'll enter you as he sort of sits on your pelvis. He'll lean over, his forearms on the bed, and thrust, you'll be watching his balls from behind. This is anohter way you can jack him as he thrusts, or rub your clit, or play with is balls or finger his ass, all of which are great for both of you. You'll like the view, and he will too, as he'll be watching from the other side. As he enters you, his cock will be very close to or slightly touching your clit, and possibly your g spot. A vibrator is great her too, for both of you. Yours for your clit, and his in or around his ass. My husband can sometimes cum twice in this positon, and I always do, sometimes more.

    Hope these aren't confusing. I found I was thinking faster than I was typing. Where did we learn these? Videos, watching porn, friends (talking about it).

    Try it.

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