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    my penis is to big for my gf help?
    Jeepers04 posted:
    Hi, me and my gf have been trying to have sex on and off and it never gets to far, she is a virgin, and im 8" erect and just about 6" in diam. and ever time we try to have sex it herts her to much to go more than about a inch in, plz help
    An_215094 responded:
    WOW um can't help ya with her being a virgin its gonna hurt the first time or two maybe more if you really that big and well if you are congrats to you to bad i aint your GF J/K

    seriously um she may need to use a really soft rubber jelly like toy to get acclimated and needs to be really turned on and you can use lube too to help with all that and i don't know how old you both are but her body may not be ready yet and you are little bigger than average it could take some time to get used to it. you could always find other ways to please each other that isn't painful
    FCL responded:
    Presumably you mean circumference and not diameter ...
    There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.

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