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    22 and my sex life sucks
    An_242241 posted:
    I am 22, I have been married for 3 years, and I have no kids and my sex life sucks. My husband and I go months at a time without having sex and the only way I can get excited sexually is porn and a toy. I am not saying my husband isn't good but I have never had an orgasm with him and I am afraid I probably never will. On top of all of this, we have been trying to have a baby and for these 3 years, not even a pregnancy scare has popped up. I beg him to lose weight because doctors say it will help us but he won't do it and I can't keep making up issues to not have sex.
    Any advise please.
    GuardSquealer responded:
    First of all, why would you want to have a kid while your marriage is in such bad shape?

    You sure you want to spend the rest of your life in a relationship where the sex life sucks?

    First issue you need to work out is improving your sex life.

    And once you get that worked then maybe decided if you want a child with him.

    You say your sex life sucks. Do you not have sex because you don't want to with him? Because he is too fat?

    That seems to be what you are saying in the last part of your post.
    Milesman responded:
    What is your & his personality like? Do you own and enjoy "toys? (can you afford batteries?)" BE CAREFUL A CHILD WILL NOT CORRECT YOUR PROBLEMS

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