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I need help for my boyfriend
An_242374 posted:
ok well, I boyfriend and I have a great sexual connection. The thing is is that I get wet very easily and he says that that makes it harder for him to finish. Then if I try and control myself that doesnt help him either. He has been in jail for a long period of time and he says that that my be the problem, but I blame myself because he can finish on his own when he masterbates. Is there anything that I can do to help him??
FCL responded:
You cannot control how much lubrication your body roduces. you can sto during intercourse and wipe away as much as you can but that's about your limit

What HE can do to help himself is to get himself used to a lighter grip when he masturbates. He has gotten used to a tight (and possibly dry) grip and that is something that a vagina cannot really reproduce. The effort/solution lies in his camp, not yours.
There's nothing inherently dirty about sex, but if you try real hard and use your imagination you can overcome that.
dfgbull responded:
FCL has hit the nail right on the head. He has to relearn the sensations of a vagina.

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